Slovenia vs. Croatia - EU blockage, border issue

First of all I'm from Croatia, blockade doesn't matter to me at all because I think that EU brings nothing good. Slovenians want land that doesn't belong to them (historical borders) and the problem is that no one exactly knows where that border is. During the years the border was changing without both governments controlling it and now both governments suddenly want to decide the exact borders. I don't like Slovenians because they don't like us Croatians and because of it I'm boycotting Slovenian products as every proud Croat does (I'm not an extremist). Don't get me wrong, not every Slovenian is bad. Why do we hate each others, maybe because during the history Slovenia was always in the shade because of other countries (Serbia, Croatia...) and now they want payback because of it... There is also one more thing that bothers me, Mercator (Slovenian company with stores in many other countries) gave bigger salaries to employees for Christmas. Every single employee got extra cash but Croatian employees. Do you think it is fair? Because of that I'm boycotting Slovenia and their products.

First of all, let me state that I am no expert to Balkanian matters, I only read news and try to make an opinion out of it. When it comes to any big bureaucratic system like EU, we all know that the money is involved. Lots of it, usually. Now, you have to realize that the countries are also led by the very "powerful" men from the background, who have their interest in this game. The question arose, is Croatia even wanting to enter EU? Obviously someone has a very high political influence in all this to have been able to manipulate such a conflict. It is always my opinion that countries in bad relationship have no benefits out of any political arguments. It's better you find the way to solve it because it's the only way you can grow together, and find a way to prosperity using each other. As far as Slovenia is concerned, it is obvious they are trying to reach some sort of deadlock position and prolong the negotiations for new countries to join EU. Or, just perhaps, is it the EU that is really controlling this very incident. Think about it; Bosnia, Serbia and Croatia have suffered through a great war, ultimately EU is trying to stabilize the area by getting them united in "one package". All I can say is good luck, because that's exactly what both countries will need, it's too obvious that someone outside is playing ping-pong with people's mind. Like I said before, it's just my opinion, if it hurt your national feelings, I am apologizing in advanced (lately people get offended over everything, unfortunately)...