Do you judge people on their looks?
By n30wing
@n30wing (4767)
Philippines
December 21, 2008 11:17pm CST
For me no! I have dated an over weight girl, I have dated an ugly girl. It wasn't that bad. The ugly thing, that is just skin deep. However the overweight thing is a matter of health . Full figured women realize they just laugh it off, and soon they end up laughing at a lot of things which is good especially when the going gets tough! Have a nice day to all of you! Advance Merry Christmas!
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@leeapollo (611)
• China
22 Dec 08
no.of course not.
I was told not to judge a person all by the appearence or clothes when I was a child .and I have done these for years.
I think every one should not judge people by face or cloth.that's skin deep.
happy mylotting.
advance merry christmas.
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@zhuhuifen46 (3483)
• China
23 Dec 08
We should not judge people on their looks, but there is definitely relationship between one's look and his physical and mental insides, which result from not only his parents, but from his experiences, especially the way he has been brought up and his personality has been developed along his life.
The observation has its material basis, not just a spiritual one. In real life, I often can not help judging people by one's look, especially when I find traces which I believe hints something ill at the back.
Have you notised sometimes adopted child came to look like his family members, and spouses after living together for decades become alike, too. Why? What food they take, how they behave to each other, where they stay... must have influence on their outputs, including apperance. So one's look can be taken as reference at times.
@CRSunrise (2981)
• United States
23 Dec 08
I generally try not to judge people on their looks. Sometimes the beautiful people who are there can have some of the ugliest personalities, and vice versus.
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@celebratelifeh (1142)
• China
22 Dec 08
most of time i think i can judget people evenly not by their appearance. but if for the person who you meet the first time, if he/she with good looking will ofcourse help. also if their clothing suits them perfectly .
your opinion about your girl is really appreaciteable for we only dating the people who she is while not the weight what she has. so . suggest your girl care about her health as you stated. good luck.
@sharra1 (6340)
• Australia
22 Dec 08
Hmmm and so many good looking crooks play on that. They know that people will think nicely of them if they are good looking and nicely dressed. That is how they manage to scam people out of money.
I never assume that someone is nice just because they are attractive.
@blablablu (221)
• Indonesia
22 Dec 08
It's very general topic and have been discussed all over the world.
Personally, I would say yes I do judge people on their looks BUT it's not a final judgement! Come on, who doesn't? It is very natural for people to judge everything by it looks, obviously since we still have eyes to see and the first common thing we do is making an eye contact first. But please don't make it as your final judgement and make you blind for another opinion. In the end, I don't really care if people look ugly, cocky, arrogant, or something if I know what exactly they got inside.
@n30wing (4767)
• Philippines
3 Jan 09
Well I don't believe on first impression. It takes time to know it doesn't take a night. I t takes time. But for me beauty fades but not a good person. Especially when she touch a lot of people with her kindness, just really being her. Sorry for the late reply. Have a nice day to you!
@robert19ph (4577)
• Philippines
22 Dec 08
hello n30wing,
No, I think we don't have the right to judge anyone by their looks. Everybody has the right to be treated well and with respect.
More often than not, those who are less not fortunate to have a good looks are those that have a good heart. Others are only good with their outside or physical looks.
Nobody is perfect anyway, so the best thing that we can do is to give chance to everyone. Everybody deserves that.
@underdogtoo (9579)
• Philippines
22 Dec 08
I would not go to extremes when it comes to judging people by their looks. Good luck to you and I hope your life if full of positive thinking as well as actions.
@sharra1 (6340)
• Australia
22 Dec 08
No I have never judged any one by their looks only by their words and actions. I have found that people who are ordinary are usually very nice people but those that know they are good looking can be vain and self centred and I am not interested in anyone like that.
I like people who are warm and loving and if they are also attractive then I suppose it is a bonus but I am attracted to the personality not the outer shell.
@mchavez11 (1406)
• Philippines
22 Dec 08
I don't know. Sometimes I guess. Its really hard to say, but there are times that I tend to think of something about a person judging by his or her looks. I know its totally wrong. This is why I'm trying to eliminate this kind of negative trait. To be honest, it seldom happens, not all the time though. Nobodys perfect I guess. Merry Christmas.
@ketki_123 (28)
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22 Dec 08
for me also looks does not matter alot , but yes I would say dressing sense is really something important i always look on to and ofcourse the verbal skills, I'm not saying that these two things are enough to get an idea of a person but at the same time these are the things which can't be ignored either
@Grace030174 (741)
• Qatar
22 Dec 08
I think its human nature to do this, but its WRONG of course!
I dont judge people by their physical look cos i dont wanna be judge.
what is important is the inner character.
as the saying goes, "[B]DONT JUDGE THE BOOK BY ITS COVER"[/B].
@roselynm1023 (950)
• Philippines
22 Dec 08
hi!
we should not judge according to looks. physical appearance is only for the outside what is more important is the attitude and what is inside the heart. people may be beautiful outside, alluring, pretty and awesome but if the character is bad its useless. beauty fades but not good character.
be blessed!
@n30wing (4767)
• Philippines
3 Jan 09
Same with me, I just don't judge people, beauty is just skin deep, what counts a lot is when her heart touches a lot of people, rich or poor. Your right beauty fades but not good character. Have a nice day to you! Sorry for the late reply! Keep on smiling!
@kunking (1118)
• China
22 Dec 08
no, i don't judge people on their looks..as far as dating with girls is concerned, i would like to say i dont mind dating with not pretty looking girl. because different person can have varied opinions on a girl's looking...i only date with the girl who fits me..lol
have a nice day and merry christmas!
@kukaisiton (702)
• Philippines
22 Dec 08
wow what a nice outlook on beauty and looks. i also agree that we shouldnt jusge people based on how they look but honestly and naturally, people do judge. probably even just a slight impression. thanks for sharing your discussion.
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@n30wing (4767)
• Philippines
31 Dec 08
Thanks for the response, I think we should not judge anyone. For me what counts a lot is being real, and not pretending. The personality, and the character counts a lot. Beauty fades, but inner glow will always be there.Sorry for the late reply! Keep on smiling!
@frozenimage (464)
• United States
22 Dec 08
as long as the person and nice and considerate, I don't really care.
@burnek (101)
• Philippines
22 Dec 08
I can honestly say that when i was younger, I tend to judge people by the way they look. Now that I have gained experiences in life, i came to a point where physical appearance dont matter to me anymore. I have known some pretty people and guess what? Their attitude sucks. Its just a matter of how you present yourself to others. thanks, and merry christmas to you too.
@sunny0806 (248)
• China
22 Dec 08
No doubt a good look usually impressed on us. I think most of us likes to look at a beautiful look. But when we affiliated with them we'll find sometimes they do not the same as their beautiful looks.
In China we always say "a beautiful face is not a real beauty, a person with good heart is a beauty". I like people with good heart though they have a ugly look.
Do not judge a person from his look. As the song said "Though I'm ugly I'm so gentilesse"