Long Distance Relationship
By utsadetti
@utsadetti (4589)
United States
December 22, 2008 12:40am CST
What do you suggest on me how to keep long distance relationship in a marriage. I and my spouse do not have much time to see each other. I live in somewhere else with my three children and my spouse often has to go to out of town and sometimes go to abroad on a duty for determination periode.
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@celticeagle (166760)
• Boise, Idaho
22 Dec 08
It is hard. Do you both really love eachother and want to make the best of a long distance marriage? Is there any hope he will change his job? How old are your children? Could you possibly travel with him sometimes? Do you have family or friends that could take care of your children on occasion so you could be with your husband? Other than that I would say to try to make the time you have when he is home very special. I cannot imagine a marriage lasting if the husband is gone alot of the time.
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@utsadetti (4589)
• United States
22 Dec 08
yeah, sometimes it is quite hard. My oldest son is age 4, then his sister is 2,5 age and 1,5 age. Well it's wonderful to have them. I and my hubby are loving each other. Actually i always try to believe him, but sometimes i need him arround me. No, i do not have other family to take care of children occasionally. You know what, when i was pregnant on my second girl and then she was born, my hubby was in Philladelphia. He was not arround me for almost a year for supporting my pregnancy and our baby born.
i think i must agree with you that i and my hubby must spend time even it's a little time to be together, espicially when he is in our home.
@mrbrownedeye (781)
• Philippines
22 Dec 08
your relationships is somewhat hard because of such situation but one thing i can tell you dot have to worry about because you have your children and they are your strength for as long as you love those kids you dont need to worry the faith and love that you have holdin' on will keep your relationship alive and i wished that would grow old. communication can ease the loneliness...
@utsadetti (4589)
• United States
23 Dec 08
Absolutely I agree with you.
My children are my strength, and i love them all very very very much. They are my sunshine. I just feel lonely sometimes for a while, but i still can face it because of my cute children.
@underdogtoo (9579)
• Philippines
22 Dec 08
There are many couples who have long-distance relationships. Many people have wives and husbands who have to work somewhere else. This is something which might not work all the time but if they're lucky they can still have a good life. Cheers!!
@utsadetti (4589)
• United States
23 Dec 08
Yes, i agree with you. In fact we have to live separately because some reason, and we do this for our children wealthy.
