Will you be disappointed when you get a zero reply for few days?

hello there my dear friend. yeah i am quite disappointed at times when my topic has been running for days unnoticed but this is part of life we can't expect everyone to be interested on what we have posted. i think what we can do is to think well of a better topic that people in here will be more interested. i think this happens to everyone of us. happy mylotting my friend. haven't heard from you for quite sometime.

I've gotten two discussions already with zero replies and I don't think those topics were uninteresting though. I was quite disappointed and think that I should research topics more, but hey, somehow these topics are gonna be picked up into mainstream and you'll see! haha!

When I was new to Mylot, I had many zero response discussion. I guess I still have one hanging around. It is a discussion about blogger templates...no one responded to it, and I still don't know how to change my blogger template. :( Now, with so many friends around, I don't think any of my discussions will go without responses. Someone is bound to answer unless they don't know what I am talking about. Would I feel bad? I guess not!! LOL! I would just start another discussion, and keep it simple this time. Cheers and happy Mylotting

I have not experienced a zero response now for a long time. It has just happened once when I was very new here. But now it is sometimes surprising when I get less than 10 responses for a discussion. Usually the number goes beyond 25 or most of the time beyond 50.

That is somehow disappointing. I'd ask myself the following question: "What is wrong with my topic?" and as you said, I also would feel embarrassed for having posted an uninteresting topic. Also herein lies the importance of having supportive friends who match your interests. Sometimes what is interesting to you may not be interesting to others even if they are your friends. However if your friend is supportive and at the same time matching your interest...you have big chances of avoiding zero response.

I do not get disappointed on not getting any response to any of my discussion postings nor do I feel embarrassed. It is a fact of life that we have different interests in life, different understandings of events, and different approaches to solve problems. Therefore I do not expect other people to even respond to my queries. When that happens I just move on. No use wasting time thinking over it since there are many topics that can be discussed on. all the best, rosdimy

I don't deny that I feel disappointed if my discussion is not being responded by others and remain 0 for a few days, which never happens to me so far. But I try to be open minded and think that my post is not in everybody's interest and thus do not get the catch. So I would try harder to make a more catchy discussion and also the timing of posting our discussions can be the main factor here. Sometimes our discussion become 'box office' and sometimes it remain pathetic with no response. Just make many friends and you will never believe that your discussions will always reach the top or hot discussions.

Yes, I will be disappointed for not having responses for few days and think that maybe no ones are interested in my discussion, lol.

Yeah i will be!! because the people arent interested in my question!! lol and my earnings (i think goes down) will go down maybe cents or something like that!! And for me thats bad, i feel like you because maybe i just want to know something and the people dont help me!!! well have a nice day and hope you will have a very good week ;) see you soon and happy holidays! bye bye.

It used to disappoint me, but these days I don't mind really, it's like you said, maybe the discussion topic is one that doesn't really interest anyone, or maybe it was posted at a time when there are not really that many people online

Hi Bebs08, when people expect something and it does not happen, it gives rise to disappointment and despair which eventually turns into anger. only the people having superb degree of self control can avoid such feelings and can remain untouched by the good or bad. As I am not one of them and just an ordinary one, when no reply is posted against my discussion, it disappointments me and i too feel neglected which makes the mind quite heavy. But, on the other hand, I say to myself that ups and downs are just part of life and when something bad has happened something good is bound to take place. And it really does so. Neither bad or good continues indefinitely and we can continue to live. As now, my earnings after reaching a high are decreasing day by day even if i am trying. Hope it will improve soon. Hoping you a flood of responses..

ofcourse will be depressed by no response, i always with the respecting of a hot topic and many responers joined in ~~

It can be very disappointing but we can't give up and all we can do is just dig deeper and try a little harder. I'm sure that sooner or later someone will begin to notice and start to listen. ;-)

ya its really disappointment for a person who dint recieve replys from his freinds or the users of the my lot......but at the same time everyone have their own interest as that u cannot change...........

[i]Hi Bebs, YEs..and sad also! LOL! But, like you, I tried also to think outside the box since as experience, I am not also responding to all my notifications since I am not interested or I have no idea and I cannot relate![/i]

Yes, I will feel very disappointed it but then I will get over it. After all, it is not a big deal. Perhaps my discussion isn't interesting and therefore nobody can say something for it. I love China

I am not disappointed. I believe getting zero responses is just normal. We cannot please everyone because we have different interests. If they do not like our discussions, then maybe it does not fall in one of their interests. Maybe, our posts is not that understandable. I have experienced that two times already. I do not care. What is important is that I love what I have posted. I am happy with that.

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I am a bit disappointed when I get zero replies to a discussion. It may be that people are not interested in the topic, and if that is the case, it is fine by me. It also may have something to do with the time the question was posted. If it is posted at a busy time, there are many questions posted and people may just not see yours. If it is not posted at a busy time, people might not be on to respond to it. I guess that the response rate depends on a lot of factors. I try not to get too disappointed when my discussion does not receive a response.