I think she is in love

Nigeria
December 22, 2008 7:22pm CST
I have a friend who I think is in love with me. The problem is she respects me too much and she said she takes me as her big brother. She is alway calling me 'sweetheart' and she kisses me when I ask her to, she loves staying with me, but she has a boyfriend. I am afraid that I might damage my reputation if I ask her out. I am confused, what should I do? I love her so much.
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@s8tern (76)
• Egypt
23 Dec 08
well, my advise is somewhat military , Recon and assess based on the info gathered, i`m not kidding, approach carefully and undetected, gather as much information as you can, you can recruit spies to aid you (mutual friends), after you got all the information you can get, re-evaluate the situation, if you assessment based on the info gathered advises you to engage the enemy, go ahead with no fear, if it is the opposite, then i advise you "stick to the status quo", it is also optional and advisable to get a 2nd opinion on your end results, i`m sorry if i seem like some cheesy spy, or an army dropout , but i couldn't say it any other way, hope this helps....and best of luck on your mission *Salute*
• Nigeria
23 Dec 08
Thanks dude, I will surely follow this step.
@s8tern (76)
• Egypt
24 Dec 08
np, glad to see my advise helped, even though i`m a complete nub in these kind of things....
• China
23 Dec 08
Though not having such an experience, I really understand you situatin. I strongly recommend you tell her your feeling toward her. All of us just have one chance to be young, we should do something that let us pride for. Once you miss the chance, you never return back. Don't think too much, just do it. Maybe you wouldn'd obtain your affection, at least you will not regret later in your life.
• Nigeria
23 Dec 08
You are right, coz if I dont and I find out later that she was ready for me I will regret not asking her out.
@sanuanu (11235)
• India
23 Dec 08
So, if she says that you are his big brother then her love must also be like a sister and brothers! Don't you think so?
• Nigeria
23 Dec 08
so, are suggesting I tell her what is in mind?
@nchap36 (556)
• United States
24 Dec 08
I can't really give advice that I need. Only thing I can say is talk to her. Talking never hurt no one.
• Nigeria
24 Dec 08
Just pretend you want an advice from her. Call her and tell you are in love with someone close to you and you scared to ask her out. Listen to what she will say and act based on her answer. Good luck.