Is that possible to handle your Office Work and Girl Friend...?
By ghanshyam18
@ghanshyam18 (3)
India
3 responses
@owlwings (43910)
• Cambridge, England
23 Dec 08
If your girl friend is jealous of the time you spend at the office then either you really are not giving her enough attention or she is being unreasonably jealous. Everyone should have a social life as well as a work life. There are times when work is more important than anything else and it's necessary to cut back on the social side. That is usually when you discover who your real friends are!
@jesbellaine (4139)
• Philippines
23 Dec 08
Hi There!
In the first place, why would you get a girlfriend if you don’t know how to manage your time? So, my answer to your question is yes, you can work and have a girlfriend at the same time. Life is a continuous growth and it is multi tasking… You need to learn how to handle things at the same time especially when you are in a relationship besides, work and relationship must be together. You can be married without having work right? I mean, you need to work for a living, to buy what you need in your life… and at the same time, you need someone to bet her by your side, a human person who can give you love and support you.
If you think that you are not ready for a relationship then you should just focus on your career first and family for the time being then if you are ready then that is the time for you to seek love or it will just come… Goodluck! Thanks for the discussions!
Happy Mylotting and Happy Mylotting! Cheers!
@maean_19 (4655)
• Philippines
23 Dec 08
It is just a matter of 'TIME MANAGEMENT"....If your career is similarly and equally important with your GF, you have to at least give time for each. Talk to your GF about how important your work is as well as her importance to your life. Your career cannot just be given up because it is where you get for your future. A person who is open minded can understand what you are going through. That is why, you should assure her not to envy having much time with your work than her. On the other hand, you should give time for you to unwind. And when you think of it, include your GF on times you want to relax. We need inspirations. Do not be too workaholic to the extent that you are ignoring your GF. Have some time with her, too.