Change

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Change is constant in life. Mind should accord with changes. Do not use yersterday's mind to perceive today's happenings. Zhuang Zi I found this great quote recently after a friend mentioned being told that all one has to do to bring about change is to simply change. Just do it she was told. This bothered me a great deal for several reasons. How many of us have found ourselves involved in relationships where we found things about our significant other that initially we thought was cute but then found it to make us insane? I think most of us. I know I have. We come to the conclusion that this person must change their ways. First of all, we don't have to right to force others to change. Secondly, we need to stop and take a moment about why this all of the sudden drives us quite mad. Most likely you will realize that you are the one that has changed and also will find that the issue you have is within yourself, not the other person. The other thing that bothered me is that we can't just simply change because someone else says so, or because we wish to. It does require that you look within and examine your perceptions and ideals. It means looking at the past, at issues that you may not have resolved, and looking at not only what occured, but why you reacted the way you did. Yes, we are constantly changing, all things are. It isn't just relations to people, but to circumstances, planetary changes, lunar aspects and so much more. It is about cause and effect. It is about preconcieved notions as well as the ideals of others via peer pressure. I think ultimately change is personal. It is also about being responsible. I don't think we should focus on what others want, but what we need for the benefit of all aspects of ourself as well as for all. Your thoughts?