What exactly girls want in Love from his Boyfriend?
By ankur_sen
@ankur_sen (193)
India
December 23, 2008 12:01pm CST
My friend i think the most complicated think of this world is to understand a girl's mind.We boys are generally confused about those girls all time and who trying to find how we can make girls happy.
So what exactly a girl want in love from his boy friend?What you think my friend?
In this topic girls are also welcome to help those lover boys to understand their girl friend more exactly.
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4 responses
@stejhas (209)
• United States
26 Dec 08
I would say the key to impressing a woman is to BE YOURSELF! If your girlfriend doesn't like you when you act like yourself, then she isn't the girl for you!
All women are different... I like my husband to make me feel appreciated, like his prize. It's important that he acts like he's proud that I'm the woman at his side... When we go places and he runs into people he knows, he needs to introduce them to me, rather that just forget I'm even there.
My sister, on the other hand, likes her husband to stay out of her business. She has a very private life, private friendships/relationships, etc... there are a lot of things and people in her life that her husband doesn't know about and she doesn't want him to, either. I guess this works for them, but I don't get it... I would be worried/insecure if my hubby was keeping things/people from me.
I would suggest being yourself and doing the things YOU want to do for her - if she doesn't like it, she will move on. Eventually you will find the girl that fits you perfectly!
@cobrateacher (8432)
• United States
25 Dec 08
Surely you don't think women have an easy time figuring out men?! Basically, what everyone wants is respect and equality. Relationships form around those two attributes, and if they are shared well, love may just pop up! Without respect and at least some measure of equality, a relationship would be lopsided, and that can't work well at all.
@SomeCowgirl (32191)
• United States
23 Dec 08
My fiance and I understand what each other want. We are female (I) and male (him). He knows that I want love and affection from time to time and he wants that as well. If we're unclear on something we ask, we don't believe in hiding things.
@scarletrose_2000 (192)
• United States
23 Dec 08
Girls want someone who will listen to and at least try to understand them. Open communication so that medium ground can be found is important. A woman wants love along side respect and honesty. We want to be able to trust you and we expect you to do the same for us. A small bit of jealousy shows you care about us but too much shows insecurity which pushes us away. We want a lover not a father or warden! Give us room to breathe. Something else that never hurts is to not forget our birthdays, Valentines Day, and NEVER forget our anniversary! You do not have to shower us with gifts and affection but small little ways to say I am thinking about you and love you goes a long way in our book. Don't fret over the dozen roses but at least buy us a single one. Be stable in your relationship because all women seek security and stability.
Women are really not that different. They simply want someone who cares about them and their well being. Stop trying to figure out what we are thinking because it is useless unless we want to share and spend more time communicating with us on a level we desire. Men do not have to be a die hard romantic to please us but it never hurts to at least try to be a bit of a romantic ever now and then.