I Need Some Women's Opinions

There's a very high chance I would react negatively, just because of the jealousy factor that comes into it. I couldn't stand the thought of him with another girl - but your girlfriend might be a little more adventurous? It might break the trust and security between me and the boyfriend who asked. Then again, its good to have communication between each other. Maybe you could ask more indirect questions first to get an idea of how she would respond perhaps.

well, I would probably snap his neck... no! seriously.. I wouldn't probably do that.. I would snap the sucker's neck. If I were you, I would seriously question what I thought love was.. I can't imagine sharing someone that I loved... with anyone..

Do you think your girlfriend is sexually attracted to her friend? If you have heard her say she is, I think you should try. But this really is a touchy subject. It's not something you need to do, so at least it's not a deal breaker for you if she declines. I think you should try to be open with her, so maybe if you feel comfortable, bring up the subject carefully. Start with threesomes in general, mention how you saw it in a movie, or a friend of yours is doing it. Carefully watch her reaction. Don't even think about mentioning the particular friend you have in mind until she seems to agree. Even if you do get her to agree, then you're going to have to get the friend into it. Most men never do this, it's a really huge accomplishment. So it's really up to you.

i couldnt do a 3some..im too jeaous and i just could nto watch my fiance with another woman.. i mean after the fact i would always wonder if he had feelings for her or if they were doing somethign behing my back. i just couldnt do it but i mean if you are open to the idea, approach your friend softly with the idea, kinda make a joke about it at first see what her feelings ar eon it. dont ask her until you know what her feelings on 3 some are.

Are you really serious. The reason that you hesitate is not because you are afraid you will offend her, it is because you know that it is a stupid request. How about if she ask you to bring over your big stud male friend. You know, the one that is hung like a horse and all the girls have herd the stories. Do you think that would offend YOU, or maybe just make you a little uneasy, maybe. You say you love this woman?? Then treat her like you love her. If you want a threesome, stick a couple of $50's in your pocket, and find some hookers. But, you know, its not my business, so do what you like, of course. The question just tripped me out. Here it is Christmas eve and you want to be the only one that gets any presents. Good Luck my man, good luck.

I think you must tell her why you invite her close friends.If is me ,i will always think why you invite her and not other girl.If you have no other mind,no need to worry about it.

If my boyfriend asked me anything like that I'd be very embarrassed and offended. But that is just me, I don't think things like that are right. But I know it just depends on who you date. A lot of girls get jealous these days. Over really dumb things too so it would be rare for them to be cool with stuff that I'd think.

I do think that sexuality was meant to be shared between a couple. Asking another third party to be involved is an invitation for trouble. How would you feel if your girlfriend ask one of your friends to join your for a threesome?

I would think my dog boyfriend just really wants my friend. I would tell him go ahead and do what he wants but count me out of his life.

I would think my dog bf just really wants my friend. I would tell him go ahead but just leave me alone.

If my husband were asking me for a threesome I would have to tell him go have one by himself and I'll see him in another lifetime. I'd be packed and moved in the blink of an eye. He'd be left with all the bills and he'll never see me again. Your boyfriend is being disrespectful asking something like that from you. If this is how he is now what is he going to be like when you make your relationship more permanent?

This is something that could not only change your friendship, but also the relationship with your boyfriend as well. It could be a wonderful experience, but it could also have a lot of emotional issues along with it. If you and your boyfriend are certin on doing so, maybe a few nights of the three of you hanging out before you mention it to your friend could be in order. Then again, sometimes over planning or over thinking things can be worse. Maybe it is something that might happen on its own with some nice food, drink and entertainment for the three of you.

Hey ,guy you get a idea that may most of guys have thought about that.In my opinion ,if you really love you girlfriend you should not ask for this and if your girlfriend loves you,she would not agree with you and she may think that you are not really love her.But I also need the girls' thoughts.

I have actually talked to my boyfriend about this. We do not want to have a threesome because we are scared there is going to be jealousy. I like that he wants me and only me. I would react negatively if you wanted to have a threesome with me and my best friend! She might think that she does not please you in bed or something. I would not ask if I were you, but if you really want to, be really careful by talking about the subject in general first. good luck!

That is such a horrible thing for a man to ask from a woman/gf. I'll be very doubting for him if he even asked that; I'll be questioning his faithfullness and his mental state. I am not into it because I feel and I know its not an act of love but lusts.

My husband asked me this once and only once, But I was glad he trusted me enough to ask me. Some people arrange the situation to try to force you to do something you don't want to do, that's not good for the relationship. So I'd say just ask, if you don't like the answer don't push it.

There is no way i would do it. My boyfriend is mine. I dont want anyone else having him or having me. We are just for each other. Most girls would not be into this.

I dont think it is a good idea

If my husband or former boyfriends had ever ask me to have a threesome with one of my friends, I might say yes to it and then ask him for the same thing with one of his friends and your girlfriend might do the same as well. This is like opening Pandora's box and you might not like what you're about to get. Some fantasies should stay where it belongs, in your imagination. If your girlfriend get down like that, she may like it and decide to leave you and take her friend or her friend might enjoy you and want some more. I personally feel that if both parties agree on this matter, they should do it with someone they're not close too.

You must go to and her boldly communicate,slowly understands opposite party,only then like this only then may achieve the body and the thought unites,only will then tel everybody obtain joyfully.