married life...
By grzdingz
@grzdingz (187)
Philippines
December 24, 2008 9:55am CST
who among you here are already married?are there any problems you and your partner are encountering or have been fighting for?how do both of you handle these problems?do these problems make you and your partner get closer to each other or make gaps?how intense these problems are?i hope now very much and you both will able to handle them....
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@seemamishra (56)
• India
25 Dec 08
Yes, I am already married and have two kids. I must say that I have a good relationship with my husband and my children are also close to both of us. It takes a great deal of selfless efforts to build up such a special and strong bonding. It is not that only women have to compromise or make adjustments but because both are unique individuals, born and brought up in two different families and in two different environments, difference in opinion is obvious. You cannot deny this fact but you need to council and both of you must be ready to listen to each other point of view. This is very important and for this you will have to build up a strong mutual understanding.
I know that 'Men are from Mars and Women are from Venus' and so both of them think and act differently in different situations. So first of all they both need to understand and know each other. As far as kids are concerned it is important to feed their minds with our values and morals and then when they are growing up, listen to them, make friends with them and I must tell you it is not difficult at all. Only thing you need to do is think like them but don't forget that you know what is wrong and right at their age. Try to convince them and guide them politely and in a friendly way. I am sure you will have strong bonding with your spouse and kids as well. Enjoy life.
@sreejithsreenivas (10200)
• India
24 Dec 08
I am already married.Small problems and fighting is a part of happy married life.This make partners to get more close to each other.In life there will be small problems,but we have face and tackle it.