What will u do if ur lover fights with u?

@harsha27 (205)
India
December 24, 2008 9:57am CST
For good relation it is good to have fights if that figts are healthy. I will ve calm if mine is mistake. I will say sorry and tries to convience her in many possivle ways. If she gets cool ok the i will say goodvye.
5 responses
• Belize
24 Dec 08
Fights, this is something very common in a relationship. It not only takes out frustrations but it builds communication. When there is conflict, the best way to resolve it is talk. When that doesnt work leave some space between each other but not too much. Then after engage in laughter n then get down to talking. i dont think pushing ur point in a positive way will help bc there will always be resistance and so you wont get ur way. Compromise is the key.
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@harsha27 (205)
• India
24 Dec 08
What u said is right.I agree with u my friend .If she cannot comprimise with me then what can i do ?
@akangirl (2436)
• India
24 Dec 08
Too many fights is never good for any relationship.I don't agree that people with different opinions can be together as most people says opposite attracts.I say yes they might attract her because they can't stay together long enough. Too many fights results in divorces.
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@harsha27 (205)
• India
24 Dec 08
you told regarding too many fights. I said fight and there is a lot difference vn fight and a fight.
@Tushavi (2077)
• Karachi, Pakistan
24 Dec 08
Hmmm!!! I Simply forgive her & Forget about it. have a nice day.
@sarojInc (570)
• India
24 Dec 08
Yes simply shut up and hug her.Or else let the war begin
@aakay4u (799)
• India
26 Dec 08
It depends on how often the fights are and how serious.We have fights with our lovers/partners but its not good when both fight at the same time.Its better that one person keeps quiet when the other is shouting.In fights one may be wrong or some misunderstanding.But minor skirmishes are ok till it get gets too serious.If there is real understanding there wont come a situation when one has to walk out of a relationship.