If you were me,what do you do?

In fact, being easygoing is not bad. But sometimes we must have our own style and principle. That means we must know what to do and how to do. If you are unwilling to do something, just refuse bravely. Once the same thing happened to me and i felt confused. Then my father told me that you couldn't be an apple which made everyone liked. Just be yourself and do everying without regrets, that's enough! May it helps.

i would be a pimp

It is always good to be a good man.Do not think again to become a bad man. When people try to take advantage of your goodness,doesn't mean you should change your character.First you must understand that you have the right to refuse a request. You should learn to say "no" .You should tell them politely but firmly.You should not say "no" in a indirect way,like if time permits I will do it.You should tell them directly that you can't do.You can't afford to be a "yes" man always.

It's true that being easygoing sometimes will bother you. Just as you said, the others may have you do something they should do by themselves. If you accepted, you'are actually wasting your time and energy; if you refused, you may offense them, whicch is the worst result. But even if it is so, we still have to say "no" sometimes. we should learn how to refuse people.

lol, you need to let others know that ,you have your own responsibilities . talk with he or she when he or she comes to let you help . do not just shout at them , this will let you in a bad position.

You should gradually turn your nature froma good person to a straight forward person. You need not be a bad person, but, rather say no when someone tries to push you something from their side. You can initially start by making excuses like I am too busy to do it or I don't know how to do it etc.

bring your foot down and say no. "I'm sorry but i'm tight right here and isn't that your part of the job?" i don't know. i'm normally very straightforward to my groupmates. i just tell them that we've split the work and i've my hands full with mine. always draw a line, friends are friends but work is work. this way you won't burn yourself out.

Why do you want to be bad? Everyone wants to be good and you want to be bad? Forget it. Be what you are and people will respect you for it.But be firm and do not let others take advantage of your goodness. You know Mahatma Gandhi was respected even by the British because of his innate goodness but he was very firm and commited to his cause which was freedom for his country, India.Your goodness will make you lots of friends who will come to your help when you need them but if you try to become bad then everyone will shun you and you will be the loser in the end.So don`t give up your goodness but use it in such a way that it will be of help to you. Don`t be softhearted but put your foot down when someone tries to bully you and stand up to them.

lol. i had to laugh at you line - "i want to be bad now." well anyways, you don't necessarily have to be bad to stop them from abusing your kindness. i think it's a good way to confront them without changing the normal tone of your voice. try to tell them that you also have things to do for yourself and you can't all the time accept the responsibilities which should have been theirs in the first place. tell them that you somehow feel bad about what their doing because they're depriving you of what's supposed to be your free time. tell them that you have responsibilities of your own that you have to take care of. and never forget to tell them that you're not mad, tell them that you don't feel good about being treated the way they treat you. in that way, the impact of the confrontation is minimized and the chance of creating conflict is lessened. i hope my advice helps you. if you don't like that one then you can always tell your boss about it and tell him to have a surprise inspection just when you're doing your officemate's jobs and their relaxing. lol. seriously, good luck and i hope i have somehow given you an idea of what to do. =D