If there is a fight beteen two, who should forgive first? A girl or a Boy?

India
December 25, 2008 11:15am CST
This questions troubles me a lot and I always fall the victim of this. Please let me know and I will follow this in my life.
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@shonali (1286)
• India
25 Dec 08
OH MY GOD....ARE YOU KIDDING ME !!!! OFCOURSE ITS THE GUY WHO SHOULD FORGIVE FIRST !! heheehehee i would anyways say that..... cos i am a girl...... so actually this statement really doesnt make any sense to me.... in different situations forgiveness happens differently..... sometimes you are the one who is calm in an argument and sometimes she is the one who is calm...... but i say that when there is a relationship between two people both should try to calm either one of the partners down so that finally there could be some kind of resolution to the argument..... whether its going to be the guy or the girl it doesnt matter.... both the partners play an equal part in the relationship if you are the only one all the time forgiving and forgetting then one day you will finally get frustrated which will finally not be good for the relationship!!
• India
26 Dec 08
Shonali, Now i know why it should be a boy. U know what? the statement does make a sense and thats why you wrote so much... And The only reason why i wrote this is coz whenever there is a figt amongst us, she comes and forgives me. So i thought i should do it.
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@shonali (1286)
• India
26 Dec 08
hahhahaha...its the totally opposite for me.... im the hot headed one in the relationship so its always him coming and forgiving me, cos im way to stubborn to realise that it could very well be my fault... :P
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@jesbellaine (4139)
• Philippines
26 Dec 08
Hi There! It should not matter… When we fight especially when it is my fault, I am the one who say sorry or vice versa… even if it is not my partner’s fault… as long as our anger diminishes, he will be the one to talk to me and sort things out… As much as possible we don’t let our pride stir our relationship. You need to be matured in taking care of your relationship. I doesn’t matter who say sorry first… the important thing is you can sort things out… especially when you have problems with each other. Happy Mylotting and Merry Christmas! Cheers!
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@y2krimi (133)
• India
25 Dec 08
It doesn't matter whether you are a girl or a boy to forgive.If this question troubles you,then you should try first,you should forgive your partner even when she is the reason of fighting.if you love her,then this types of question should not arise in your mind.forget and forgive...
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• India
27 Dec 08
Hi friends in love where the question comes mistake, forgiving etc. In any love whether it is between friends or with opposite there is no fight. It is only a difference of opinion. When you have harsh words everybody should forget that the next moment and be as usual. There should not be fight, forgiveness etc. It is only for a formal relationship and not for love.