Would you allow your friends to shop for free at your business place ?
By ronnyb
@ronnyb (6113)
Jamaica
December 25, 2008 12:35pm CST
I know this is a matter of conscience but would you ? If yes is your answer ,are there any considerations that you make like .would you allow him to shop for free anytime he likes or would you give him a number of free shops and after that he would have to pay .Or would it only apply to some items. Would all your friends qualify for this incentive ? What if this was your only source of income and it was only breaking even or even making a loss. Suppose its a service business and its your only source of income and finally if your friend has a business would you expect the same ?
What is your view ?
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23 responses
@kerriannc (4279)
• Jamaica
25 Dec 08
Friends, family and business does not mix. So my answer would be no. Eventually where you shop that person and you will become friends do you think that he will let you shop for free. Hell No. When I had my shop my friends would come and purchase and pay their full cost. Then after couple of shopping they begun to owe on goods. My shop has closed down since February of this year and one person owed me over $4,000. I realized that she used to steal from me. But she is living in Clarendon and you know that down there is not a pretty bed of rose and so I leave her to the mercy of those haunted men who are creating havoc.
Now Ronny in my conscience I will maybe give them a five percent discount but to shop free no. Not even the millionaires allowing persons to shop free. Do you see what it takes to shop free at their establish. Think like those persons and you will be rich.
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@ronnyb (6113)
• Jamaica
25 Dec 08
I know the point you are making and I know that these people can wreck your business but are those true friends and family uf they do that to you .A true friend would never do that but I recently had an experience with a friend who borrowed my last 2000 dollars that I needed to go to work and didnt give it back intime ,so I totally understand.
You are right though if you want to be rich ,you cant mix business with family and friends
@annjilena (5618)
• United States
26 Dec 08
no i would not business is business and those things have to be accounted for.
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@lazeebee (5461)
• Malaysia
29 Dec 08
Hi Ronnyb, allowing my friends to shop for free is really stretching it too far. I would only allow the free option to immediate family members, and also with conditions or limits. For friends and relatives, I could offer better discounts - something which others may not get.
@jzqt27 (541)
• Canada
25 Dec 08
really depends on my situation and mood. i have a business (food), i usually give them discounts, between 10-70% off. i only gave them free meals like... maybe 4-6 times thats it. but my friend understand it... so he don't have hard feelings.
@ronnyb (6113)
• Jamaica
25 Dec 08
ok you are a prudent businessman and a good friend .I think you have managed to create a nice balance between the friendship and business
@sid556 (30959)
• United States
26 Dec 08
No, I wouldn't. A real friend would not expect me to. I used to babysit for a living and as it was, I worked out payment with the parents, (friends or not) ahead of time and according to their financial situations. Most were friends and knew me very well of course, to trust me with their children. It was usually my "friends" that felt they could hold off on paying me and it was my only source of income at the time. I found it insulting. I now make incence burners on the side and it's not my only income. No, I don't do them for free but for some very close friends and family members I have given them as gifts. For a person that orders a lot from me, I will often give them a deal just because they are a good customer.
@ThePaintGuru (541)
• United States
26 Dec 08
No, I probably wouldn't, although my friends would be too polite to ask. Maybe if someone was having a hard time, unemployed, or something and I owned a shop then yes. Maybe if I ran a service or restaurant, but it wouldn't be like "come on in anytime and get free stuff".
@ANTIQUELADY (36440)
• United States
26 Dec 08
i couldn't have afforded to let them do that when i was in buisness. maybe some folks could do that. it would be a very generous thing to do.
@rizzu87 (860)
• Malaysia
26 Dec 08
I think i wont let anyone shop for free, i would rather give them at the cost price... i think thats the best thing i could do. I wont have any profit on those items, but if i let them shop anything for free i will have alot of loss. I think that will not be a burden on me and it would also not be a burden on the one who is shopping which are my friends and family people as they will get everything very cheap as compared to the market price..
@suzzy3 (8341)
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26 Dec 08
You could just give them a ten per cent discount.I really think you should not give them any and they should not expect to get any,Are the pulling your leg?The only way anybody should qualify for discount is if they work there,other wise you will lose all your profit and why should you give them free stuff real friends will not expect it.
@kapil_poundarik (960)
• India
26 Dec 08
i would not allow him to shop free at my business place this would be reduce my income and i believe that money and friendship are two different things. if u ever try to mix them u r friendship would definitely be affected.
@CRSunrise (2981)
• United States
26 Dec 08
I guess it would have to depend on the situation. If it were someone's birthday, or something else special, I might do something. I guess I would really have to think each situation through.
@ethanonthemoon (1494)
• Quezon, Philippines
26 Dec 08
A business is a business. I might give a free shopping spree for my immediate family members, but for friends, I might give them discounts. We have a global financial crisis. They should understand that it is hard to earn at this times.
@crimsonladybug (3112)
• United States
26 Dec 08
My boss does favors for her friends all the time and she almost always ends up regretting it in the end. They almost always take advantage of the situation, wanting something for nothing. Christmas is our busiest time and last year her friend came to her and asked if she could get five sets of basketball uniforms for some new players on his team (he coaches high school basketball). She told him sure, and offered them to him at cost. When she finally got the order from him with the names and numbers he wanted on them five sets turned into 36 but she did them anyway.
I hope to one day open a bookstore. I might consider offering good friends and family free stuff for, say, holiday gifts or for special occasions and discounts the rest of the year. I guess it would depend on how well my business thrives when I finally get it open.
@burnek (101)
• Philippines
26 Dec 08
I definitely would not. I may give them large discounts cause they are my friends. I am sure they will understand my situation. And besides, its not a good business practice. You will only end up losing earnings or profits. Or worse you will lose your business altogether. And if you feel they feel bad about not getting what they want, the problem is not with you anymore. Thanks for the discussion. =)
@karthickvr (165)
• India
26 Dec 08
Not all times. If my close friend wish to take something which is not costly I will allow him. Else I won't allow whoever it is. Because we can't run business if we mind friend or relations...
@j47lee (740)
• Canada
25 Dec 08
hmm.. what kind of friend would go to a friend;s business place just to get free stuffs.. maybe the first few times yes.. but after that.. i would give them a discount... its a business place... and if the friend is understanding.. he would know that i am doing business.... and not some charity place...... my cousin sister has a restaurant.. the food is good.. but then i feel uncomfortable going to eat there..because i know she wont take money... so i just dont go there...