Why is it that women don't ask men out?
By nwike1561
@nwike1561 (94)
Nigeria
December 25, 2008 3:55pm CST
Yes, it is difficult for a woman to ask a man out. why is that we do all the works? we ask them out, we take them out. we house them, we do them, we pay their bills. A m just looking forward to the day a woman will ask me out. I will for ever cherish her if she makes me love her. Of coures she must be cute.
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@nchap36 (556)
• United States
25 Dec 08
Its always been tradition that a man ask a woman. Things have change now. Woman are asking men out. We are very i-n-d-e-p-e-n-d-e-n-t. We have our own house and cars, pay our own bills, and have decent jobs. Some us even support deadbeat men. We are so independent that some handle their business without a man.(hint hint). That lucky lady might even ask you out
@nwike1561 (94)
• Nigeria
26 Dec 08
yeh...right, You are independent? Maybe it happens in your country, but here in Africa, I guess it does'nt. They are so dependent.
@Bebs08 (10681)
• United States
25 Dec 08
Well, this case depends upon the culture. There are countries where women are so conservative. They don;t want to do the first move to ask the guy out because it is not in their culture that women will do the first move. But there are also countries that either way can do the asking. I know that Korean ladies can ask the man first.. or either way. either the man or the woman can do the asking.. Some ladies in the US too they can do the asking if they want.. but ladies from conservative countries will never do that. Men also in same country will be turned off to ladies who are asking them out. Because men knew it should be their responsibility. You are different because you want the woman to ask you out? does it mean the woman also will pay for you? Just curious!!!!
@barehugs (8973)
• Canada
26 Dec 08
In North America women do ask men out. Especially in Canada where women are liberated. Men and women are equal under the law in Canada. Women will call a man and ask him out and never bat an eye. Sometimes they even pay the bill. I think that's the way it should be.
@lucas10odak (268)
• United States
25 Dec 08
I totally disagree with you about the middle part. Men are scared of successful women! You can say different but that is the truth. If you compare situations now and 10 years ago you would see that more and more women ask men out. Most of women are more confident that men. That just the fact my friend, but we (men) don't want to talk about it.
