Are you possessive?

United States
December 25, 2008 8:48pm CST
Are you paranoid that someone will damage your property or steal your partner when it comes to relationships? I'm more or less of a fatalist so what happens,happens. However,one might go a little over the limit when your neighbors get robbed and your car gets broken into. Well,not mine but it happened in my driveway:) The reason I brought this thing up is because I've heard unfamiliar voices in my driveway and that's a pretty secluded area so I listened on (sneaky me). After a while I got really curious and looked out the window,it only happened to be my new neighbor talking on his cell phone! No wonder I didn't recognize his voice... What's funny,though,is that multiple times I've heard him say "Oh,how cute!" so I was about to come with my shotgun(an exaggeration) and find out who was that mysterious cutie! lol
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4 responses
@lilaclady (28207)
• Australia
26 Dec 08
hahahaha the cute thing is a bit of worry hahaha, to be honest I think I would have to say I am a little possessive but in my case I think it is because of a bad experience in the past that made me lose trust in friends and relationships and a little confidence in myself, I think there is always a hidden cause when people feel like this.
• United States
26 Dec 08
We all feel like it from time to time but our pride doesn't let us show it :D
@balasri (26537)
• India
26 Dec 08
I was once.Very possessive of my belongings.But age and my daughter have changed things a lot.I look at me with awe the way I have changed now.
@balasri (26537)
• India
27 Dec 08
• United States
26 Dec 08
Good for you,thank you! :)
@katsmeow1213 (28716)
• United States
26 Dec 08
I think everyone is a little possessive, and if I heard voices in my driveway that were unexpected, I'd probably have a look too. But I don't get paranoid in my neighborhood. My walls are thin and I hear every noise from outside. Usually if I hear voices it's because someone is walking past the house. It's not a secluded area and people walk past all hours of the day and night.
• United States
26 Dec 08
I live downtown and there is a bar right behind my house but you would be surprised how quiet can it can be. Well,except for the fire truck sirens which sound every 10 minutes:)
@agrim94 (3805)
• India
26 Dec 08
Everyone is possessive about something and if u got something with lots of hard work you should be or if you care about something a lot you should be. so it is ok to be possessive about ur new car or cell phone but in relationships you shd give a little free hand to ur other half if u dont want to take up all his or her space and make the other one feel suffocated but if u dont show or feel even little bit possessive about ur loved ones then u dontlove them because if someone is trying to steal them or hurt them then ur anger should show and let the stealer know ur not going down without a big real big fight.
• United States
26 Dec 08
True. Take care but don't impose and keep your weapon near! :D