they just love to compare

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Lucky for those who have no problems with their relatives but with me, I don't know but I consider this a problem. I was just scolded by my mother because I don't want to go with them to be with my relatives. I wasn't able to speak out what I really feel inside because she was already saying that I have a very bad attitude and I pay greater importance to my friend rather than to my relatives, so and so forth. But the reason that I don't want to be with them because it hurts me when they compare me with their cousin. They don't see my efforts and my good deeds but rather they see more of my cousin because she's much pettier and thinner despite of the flaws she have. For that, I'm much happier with my friends because they give me more importance than my relatives who keeps comparing me to my cousin. I don't know if I really did a wrong act but for me i just made a way for me not to get hurt. I really don't like being compared. How about you? Any problems with being compared to someone they think is better?