How can he breaks up with his girlfriend?

he doesn't want to hurt her feelings yet he wants to break up with her for a reason he can't even tell. I guess you could help your friend by telling him to start expressing his feeling effectively. If he could discuss with her girl the reason why he wants to break up maybe they could save up their relationship, they could find a solution to whatever it is that is bothering him. being honest is vital, if you want to live a peaceful life. He gotta be true ti himself.

If he really wants to break up with her, he needs to be honest. If he is just becoming afraid of commitment, he needs to face his fears.

To me honesty should always be the best. After three years in a relationship it is hard to tell someone that you no longer care but why don't he just sit her down and disclose this. No one want their heart to be broken but what maybe a problem to him, she will over look. Or is it that he was given to someone since he was a child and was just playing the field. I watch alot of Nollywood movies and on your profile you are from Nigeria. Is it that he was given to someone else and he lead this girl on. It is best for him to just tell her the truth.

This dude is afaid his girl is gonna hurt him if he breaks up with her? Sounds like an unhealthy relationship all around if you ask me. But regaurdless of the reprecussions that may come fom the break up, your friend needs to be a man and just be honest with the girl. She will respect the honesty a lot more than a sneaky underhanded break up...trust me.