Need your opinion, guys?
@journey314207 (171)
United States
December 26, 2008 8:40pm CST
I was woke up late in the morning and really felt depress co`z i really miss my family but i never showed to my husband I dont want him to worried and pity on me what I felt. I tried to hide my feeling all the time, I dont want someone think I am a weak but sometimes I really need someone shoulder to cry or lean on. I want to cry but all I can do to cry inside my heart. Am I wrong to hide my feelings all the time?
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5 responses
@jzqt27 (541)
• Canada
27 Dec 08
dear journey 314207, no absolutely not worng to hide you feelings, but it would be good it you let it out. see, my girlfriend she is very soft or kind heart girl, she always hide stuff from me because i am always busy. she cried one day and i asked her whats wrong, she told and she felt better. and i understand her feelings and i told her, no matter what happend to you, just let me know whats going on. now she always shared her thoughts and feelings. i hope this is helpful and hopefully you will be ok if you decided to shared your feelings with your husband. good luck! happy holiday!
@journey314207 (171)
• United States
27 Dec 08
Thank you, jzqt27. I will try to open up sometimes to him but there was a certain feelings i cant ever tell him so he wont be not worried. I dont want him to tell me im a crying baby. But thank you for your reply, I appreciated so much.
@jzqt27 (541)
• Canada
28 Dec 08
hello, don't worry about the cry baby thing, i mean, he have to understand what you are going through! before you even tell him, prepare youself (like what to tell him). so don't worry about it. i don't know you, but i will support what you are doing. be brave! just prepare yourself.
@SomeCowgirl (32191)
• United States
27 Dec 08
You have to know when it's best to let your husband know, but I will say that you should tell him. You don't have to tell him as soon as you wake up that you miss your family but he's your husband so I am sure he will understand. I hope that you can find a way to talk to your family! Best wishes!
@journey314207 (171)
• United States
27 Dec 08
Thanks, I will try to know what is best time to let him know my feelings.
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@katrhina23 (1282)
• United States
27 Dec 08
i think you should tell him about how you feel. he would surely understand how you feel.
@lbenjamin21 (155)
• United States
27 Dec 08
i think its important that you communicate your feelings to your husband
or he may never understand how you truly feel. why dont you want your husband to see you as you truly are. its ok to be soft and its ok to let him know that you miss him and need him. i would love to hear that from my wife its good for the male ego dont take that in a bad way but we like that sort of thing when its comes from our wife. in most cases it dont make you look weak at all. i understand that you dont want him to worry but if its affecting you this much you need to talk about it
@journey314207 (171)
• United States
27 Dec 08
Hi lbenjamin21, thank you. I know its really important the communication between me and my hubby . I loved my husband so much but I dont want me to make one of his burden. I always tell him how much i loved him but sometimes i said there is something i cant tell him co`z i was worried what his opinion sometimes. Happy posting!
@strawberrybaby39 (2086)
• United States
29 Dec 08
It does not mean you are weak if you cry. Its worse on you and causes more stress to your when you hold a lot of things in. Talk to your husband about stuff you feel. I talk to my husband and he helps me through stuff when I am down or even depressed.
