Do you think love is sweeter the second time around? will it work?

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well i had a boy friend before and our relationship lasted for two years with a smooth flow until the incident, we still had our communication for quit a while but everything happened so fast, another two years and i just lost interest in him, its because he had a serious fight with my mom which i really disagree upon, after which!! we lost contact and i had a feeling that i never want to hear from him again after what he did...so i decided to stay in my own city with my parents and of course our daughter,,when i was pregnant he did not even had the guts to show his self to me which made me very angry,and when i delivered he was not even there,,, its really painful for me because i loved him and the fact that the time i needed him the most.....he wasn't there....... after 2 years of waiting for him, i finally met this guy who accepted me the fact that i have a daughter,,also he is 3 years younger than me,, could you believe that,, i cant at first..but i am having second thoughts,, if i love him the way i loved the first guy it would be painful for me and my daughter and i may not bear that if he decided to leave us....although he said he loved me so much, until when will i know that he really meant it???????? please my lot users what should i do????!!!!!