which one will you choose between your wife and your mother?

Both are equally important as wife is next mother till our life end

I a woman, who would I choose is depending on the needs. if the father is very necessary, I will choose my father, but if my husband is very necessary, I will choose my husband. I believe they can understand. if everything is balanced will not occur and the problem does not have to choose between them. I knew as a child obligations, and obligations as a wife. so I do not have to choose between a father and husband. both are the same important, depending on how we face.

when i first met my wife, my mom was ill and so i told my wife back then my mom always come first no matter what, and if she didn't like it then we couldnt date. and even after we got married my mom still came first no matter what. my mom was very sick with her liver, and i often had to run out all hours of the night. and my wife is so wonderful never complain at all. and since my mom passed, my dad and step mom comes first if they get sick. my dad had a heart attack and had by pass so i spent lot of time with him and she never complain. i would want her to put her mom or dad before me if they were ill.

hi abdul081, this problem i have think about for a long time .My girl friend ask me when my mother and she fall in to a river,and both of them can't swim.Whom i will save first?And now i get the answer.I will tell my girl friend.If one day you became my wife,our boy has his girl friend as well.what would you think if he save his girl friend first.And from then on,i girl friend had never ask that question.