Have you met any ungrateful or rude people?
By akangirl
@akangirl (2436)
India
December 27, 2008 12:42pm CST
Have you met anyone on my lot who you helped but they turned out to be so ungrateful that they didn't even thaked.I won't say the name but here i was helping someone in ptc.I was telling which one to join and only recommended which have paid me so the person could be saved from being scammed by other ptcs.I have been scammed by so more than 40 ptc's which is really very frustrating and one feels like what a fool i have been made.And here i am telling a person which are geniune and how should we join it(it takes time to explain) and instead of thanks they think they are doing me a favor being my referral and by doing so they are superior to me.Way of talking simply change from i am helpless help me to ok you are earning too. I wanna say only one thing dude i am helping you not to fall into scams and become sad , frustrated.nobody has time to waste to explain and tell you about genuine sites as we can buy referrals too. what do you think about such people?
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@Llonorra22 (1150)
• Philippines
30 Dec 08
Luckily I haven't. All of the people are really nice to me...
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@maruti16 (36)
• India
28 Dec 08
Its really funny no one should be ungrateful for a helping lady like you,
But apart from the discussion what one should be if we helps someone that's for our happiness not for in consideration that what we get. Happiness is the by-product of creativity.Create something and you will be happy.
When you want to climb to the highest peak of the mountains it is ardous and when you have reaches the peak and you lie down,whispering with clouds,looking at the sky,t he joy that fills your hart that joy always comes whenever you reach any peack of creativity.
Hence I think its upto us how we treat the situation.
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@ersmommy1 (12588)
• United States
31 Dec 08
Rude people are everywhere. But so are nice people. I haven't come across some on mylot yet who didn't say thank you when I have helped. Maybe I have just been lucky. When I have helped someone and they are then ungrateful, I try and take comfort in the fact that I did the right or decent thing. That really is all a person can do.
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@goldeneagle (6745)
• United States
27 Dec 08
I work in a restaurant. I meet ungrateful and rude bast@rds six nights per week...
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@arkadeb313 (593)
• India
1 Jan 09
Hello dear, it is not only in this forum or any forum like this, you will find people who are ungrateful or rude. Whatever you do for them to help, they fail to recognize by just saying thanks in return. But there are also those, who are not so and luckily, they are more in number.
I am in a job where these things happen commonly. At the beginning i got irritated a lot and sometimes promised not to help anyone again. But when I needed help, I found that God has arranged for me though through not the same people but anyone. Now I have changed my mind and try to help without thinking of the response of the person. So please do not loose heart. Cheer up. Help others and the Almighty is there to help you.
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