Would you respond to my discussions if I won't respond to yours?

If my topic doesn't interest you you won't respond and if the topic you start your discussion on interest me then I'll respond...That's what friends are for to be true and honest...You start your discussions...People who are interested will respond and even if no one responds does it matter...Start another discussion...I have around 150 friends...Imagine all of them responding my discussions...I won't hate you if you don't respond cause that will be my fault as my topic wont be good enough..So enjoy and relax friend..Have a nice day!

Often times I don't check back to see if the person has responded because I am so busy trying to respond even more so therefore I would not be offended. We are all here for money, and for friendships but even so we all know that we can get preoccupied. Don't worry about it, just respond when you can!

hi friend. To be honest, I just don't keep track of things like that. I get on here and respond to whatever grabs my attention....whether it be from someone on my friends list or not. If I start a discussion, I don't expect all my friends to respond and especially if it is about nothing that they can relate to. If someone is my friend, it is usually because we have met up in a discussion on something that we both have in common and we'll meet up again. I have had some friends that never ever respond to my discussions and it's ok. Occassionally they will want to pm me or I them regarding a discussion that neither of us started and we can do that. I know that some people get really bothered by those that don't respond to their discussions. I don't have expectations of my friends doing for me in real life and I certainly don't on here. I wouldn't worry about it if I were you. If they don't want to be your friend for such reasons, do you really care? If I don't get responses to my discussions, I don't blame my friends for not responding and get upset. I just assume that either the discussion was not of interest to them or perhaps they didn't even see it. If someone wants to delete me simply because I don't respond to enough of their discussions then it really is okay by me. I guess they weren't much of a friend anyway.

I would not hate you for not responding to mine. I do not care much as long as I get some responses. I think it was very thoughtful of you to stop starting discussions since you know that you could not respond to the responses you might get. I would respond to your discussions as long as they were of interest to me and not against any mylot guidelines. For me, I respond to every discussion I can but only if that discussion is particularly interesting for me. Many discussions are boring or repeats, so most of the time those are the only ones I do not respond to.

I would if I know I have something fruitful to say, but of course , if you reply to mine , then I would be more inclined to reciprocate. Since I like this discussion, even if you won't repsond to mine now, it won't matter, it's your choice, Happy new year.

I am not really bothered if you do not respond to the discussions I have started if I respond to your discussions. I do not think it is unfair because we are not obliged here. For me, we should participate to the discussions that interest us. I hate people who force us to respond to their discussion because they responded to our discussions.

As I can see that you are commenting on some of the responses already made, I will make a response to your question. I can fully understand the limited amount of time that some members have available to them as I am in just that same situation myself. However I have opted not to start any discussions but instead to respond to discussions started by other members. My reason is basically that I think it is discourteous not to read the responses that you receive to a discussion that you start. Also make a comment to some of the responses but it is not necessary to comment on each and every one of them. So we differ in our approach on that one. Now if I was starting discussions I would not hate someone who did not respond to any of mine, while at the same time I was responding to theirs. However after a while I would stop responding to any of your discussions. There is no compulsion for us to respond to an discussions, whether started by a friend or someone else but it is a nice two-way street when it happens like that. Bearing in mind that you have limited time, is it possible to work iout some sort of system. By that I mean say one day a week you respond to discussions, another day you comment on the responses to your discussions and the third day you could start a new discussion/s. Just a suggestion but one that you might like to consider. Good luck and I hope it works out well for you, whatever your final decision.

yes i will still do respond on your discussion even you wont respond to mine. but of course there will be a big question in my head why are you not responding to my discussions. i myself dont respond to all discussions my friends started just the discussion i know what to say. if they will be asking about dogs... then i can not share anything for i dont have any pets. if they are asking about partners i can not share anything at the moment for i am single.

Of course I will, provided of course your discussion topic is interesting to me and I have something to share. Otherwise I will give it a skip and move on to other discussions. There's no reason for me to hate you, or take retaliatory action against you for not responding to my discussion. In fact, I don't even check if a person has ever responded to me for my discussions before I post and many of my postings are to those discussions where these members are not even on my friends' list.

It wouldn't bother me at all. I get on and respond to the discussions which interest me. I respond to my friends discussions only if I am interested . If i'm not I don't.

lol =D SO far, i have been responding to yours right?? ANd it's fine with me ^_^ I will just take it as helping each other out, and since i dun like to start, so i will choose to respond instead ^_^ BOth parties stand to gain in a way ^_^ Furthermore, it's not as if, u are gonna comment on those responses on your own post only, but not gonna comment on other post.. ON top of that, it's up to each individual's choice to choose, and so nobody can really blame each other ^_^

It really depends. No matter who starts the discussion, if its something I'm interested in or have a response to, then I will respond. I do always go through discussions my friend's started first. If you respond often to my discussions I will be more likely to respond more often to yours. I keep track of that mentally.

its fine richiem,as long as i can write something on the discussion raised by you,will definitely respond.i dont bother who's responding to mine or not.but honestly i will admit i have a couple pf people who make it a point to respond to most of my discussions so i also make it a point to respond to theirs.

hello always stay cool ,what you said is little bit unclear for me but i can say you one thing if you start a good discussion then you will surely get a response i will respond to your discussion even you won't response to my discussion i believe i answered to your few question if you have any further question pls reply to me .bye

I actually do not take into account who is responding to my discussions, and who is not. Actually, it is more difficult to keep a track of this. I feel comfortable to reply to any discussion that is close to my interest. And I believe, my friends here also think likewise.

It does not really bother me all that much. If the discussions are interesting then I will respond. I do like people to respond to my responses but I know that it is hard to cover everyone. If you just posted discussions and never responded back to the people who responded to them then I would start wondering why you were bothering. What is the point of being here if you do not interact with other people by responding to the comments? As to replying to my discussions I know that many of my friends do not reply to mine. I could wish they did but I also know that due to time differences my discussions may never appear on their lists a they get buried easily.

Hi Richie, Wondering where you went... What have you been up to? I don't know how some mylotters can keep track of the friends who has responded to their discussions. Do they count them? Do they have a checklist? Alright...this person has responded... Hmm... this one has not.... As for me, I respond to interesting and appealing discussions. If I have something to contribute to it, I would respond to it. I don't mind responding to your discussion even if you don't respond to mine. It's okay with me. It just goes to show that we are all different and have different interests and amount of time to respond here in mylot.

Of course I would. Maybe my discussions don't appeal to your taste and no one can force you to answer, just for the sake of answering.

No rich of course. :) As long I have an idea to share and an interesting topic to give, then I am always present at the post hehehehee.. regardless if they answer my discussed topic or not. I don't check it out whether they are at my friends list or they do answering me back. It really does not matter for me. :) Happy mylotting. :)

yeah we do respond to your discussion if they are damn good. and also if they are of my interest. i am sure you too does the same with with others. hope you get more responses from many of our mylotters.......