Your Tolerance Level
By TrayBlaylock
@TrayBlaylock (630)
United States
December 28, 2008 6:13am CST
So, I just have a general relationship question. If you're with someone and tell them about a specific thing that they do and it really hurts your feelings and they continue said behavior and try to make you fee as though you're silly for feeling that way, what kind of tolerance level do you have for that? Do you bolt? Do you hang in there and try to make the best of it? Do you give an ultimatum?
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4 responses
@underdogtoo (9579)
• Philippines
28 Dec 08
I have problems with my wife and I am sure she has problems with me. I would like things to get better that is, for her to change in ways that would please me but maybe she also wants me to change for her. Who knows? Cheers!!
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@trinidadvelasco (11401)
• Philippines
29 Dec 08
there will always be differences among people. those differences will not disappear even when you are already married and have been together for ten years or more.
what is expected to take place is that we have adjusted to these differences. so, there is no need to get rid of the habits that our partner sees in us, there is a need though to accept those which cannot be changed.
@coolsid2007 (1030)
• India
29 Dec 08
I have been in a similar situations.... the worst part is that my girlfriend doesn't even walk out on me...i mean i have had my share of tolerance and testing myself by thinking yea ... may be i am silly ... but nothing helped ... i wanted to end the relationship...and then she does not want to leave me ... i am stuck real bad...i stopped taking her calls and stuff...but nothing worked ... what i have started doing since then makes me feel better.... i have started taking relationship by being less committed to it ... try to flirt with other girls and stuff...this helps my self respect and at the same time...i have less time thinking about her (behavior)...which is totally what i wanted
rest everything ... i don't even care about it atleast anymore ... i just want to live while i am alive and stop worrying about someone who does not care about my feelings or emotions
@trinidadvelasco (11401)
• Philippines
29 Dec 08
oh, i would just simply leave them. their behaviour and reactions, i would take it to mean that they do not want me around at the time. there are times when it is best to let go. when signs like these are appearing, it means that the friends around do not desire my presence as of this time.
times like this happens to everyone. you will feel that you are out of place. it feels like you do not belong to the group at all. it is best to leave then. if one feels out of place, it is a gruelling experience.
@wangson73 (164)
• China
28 Dec 08
i think i cannt do serious warning to guys who is too action against me..
