What really is your best attribute?

In broad terms I would have to say my intelligence, but more specifically certain elements of that intelligence. I am certainly lacking in some areas, particularly in emotional intelligence. My ability with language would be one candidate. I may not always have the facts right, and many would disagree with my opinions, but I definitely have the ability, more so with the written than the spoken word, to put my case logically and entertainingly. The other candidate would revolve around something one of my doctoral advisors pointed out: I have a remarkable anility to cut through the smokescreens to the underlying important facts of whatever I set my mind to. I seem to do automatically what academics call "deconstruction" - the art of disassembling an argument to discover the underlying motives and designs. I go straight to the crucial point. This often does not make me popular. Lash

I think it the fact that I am straightforward. People appreciate the honesty in my opinion. If I like something, I say so and but just as easily if I think something stinks, I have no problem fessing up to that too.

i don't know and would rather hear it from others on what my best attributes are. Some people think their good at something when their terrible. I would have to say my best attributes are my creativity,being photogenic,artistic ability, and being hard to fool.

Interesting discussion. I am no longer sure about my best attribute. Once I would have said it was my ability to analyse and problem solve. My tutors at uni used to say that I always got the point and dealt with the bare bones. That is something that left me with problems in that I was never good at using flowery speech or babying people I did not think needed babying. I would write to them telling them what the problem was and how to solve it. They complained to my boss that I was too abrupt. What they really did not like was that I was right and no matter how much they complained about my style they still had to do what I said to solve the problem. But that was before I got sick and now my mind is very fluffy and I do not think clearly very well. Now my empathy has come out much stronger than it used to be. It was always there just not listened to very often. I used it to help people in the past.

i think my best attribute is that i didnt pay moreattention to the unnecessary or distracting things which keeps me away from anger n all. i just try to be happy all the time

mine is the ability to listen

Well, I guess mine is to listen to others since that is what others do is call or write and tell me stuff. I call myself the human sounding board.

My best attribute is is the ability to light up any situation and lighten up the mood.I am an extrovert with great enthusiasm and exuberance.

I think my best attribute is making people laugh, I think I have a very good sense of humor, and sometimes its at my own expense, but oh well, at least everybody's laughing. I don't think I'm hardly ever serious about anything, all I know is when my family are all together all we do is laugh and have fun, and they're usually laughing at me..lol. I like to make others laugh and feel good, they say laughter is the best medicine.

I'm a very quite person. I can't easily provoked...I mean I don't get angry or upset. I listen to other peoples raving and rants before I show mine. I just realized that people who get angry easily, have no self control that would normally resulted to dis-agreements and trouble. Sometimes negative feelings can broke ones relationship, either with your parents, your love ones, neighbors, employer and a lot more. So the best attribute I can honestly say about myself is being calm and patience all the time.

I think my best attribute is my ability to just tell people the way it is. My husband would call it a down fall but, I personally do not see it that way. I always expect honesty and I always give it even if it hurts. Most say I'm abrasive and I would agree with that but I am that way because I like people to be that way...I don't "beat around the bush" lol

relundad, You sound awesome! To think about a quality that I have that appeals to others is a bit puzzling. Sometimes I wonder what anyone sees in me One day I am bouncing off the wall with energy, the next I may be in a mood that makes me a recluse. I am a person that can be "counted on" to do what I say I will do, but... I don't make a habit of picking up another persons slack. If I show someone how to do something more than twice, I give up on them. Patience is not a virtue that I can lay claim to. Other than that I'd have to say that I am sometimes too much of a caring person which allows others to use me, but I never let them "use me up"! After a while, I say - "That's it, I'm done with you" Peace to you and yours!

i can listen to any amount of rubbish with a smile on my face and that my best attribute..Guess what? Till date none of character sketches have come wrong and I can understand a person by looking into eyes...Maybe because I had to survive in a boarding school...that's why I got this attribute of tolerating and judging...Even I have a bad attribute and that is sometimes I try to avoid things which are hanging in front of me if I don't like them...I guess you are a good speaker too cause good listeners are often good speakers...Have a nice day!

I have a way of presenting things in a good and postive light. It shows in my writing and speaking. I'm very good at creating postive images. I also think I'm good at capturing people's interests.

I love people too and can mis with the best of them to those who are in need and not as well off as myself or others..everyone needs an ear to listen a shoulder to cry on, a comforting voice or words I love to help people in the best way I can at the given time and situation, being a friendly person I speak to most people even in a shopping queue!! Those are a few things I can think of at the drop of a hat, I never judge someone from their looks it is the person/character of that person that matters whatever colour or creed they may be and I see everyone as a Human Being with the same feelings and needs as we all have...littleowl

hmm i guess the fact i care about people to a fault.. i am always worrying if my friends are ok and if they are happy etc which unfortunately stresses me out but i cant help it i care about them.. i can feel their pain and emotions etc.. i can read people well.. i usually know what they need or how they are as a person etc.. and im honest which keeps me in trouble..

My best attribute is my "SMILE" that can give others JOY....