Online and Offline
By kerriannc
@kerriannc (4279)
Jamaica
December 28, 2008 10:00pm CST
Life online is as hard as it is offline. Just as how there are persons who dislike others offline without getting to know them it is the same story online. Sometimes I wonder what it is in life that person just dislike another for no reason.
But I guess it is human nature isn't it?
6 responses
@ronnyb (6113)
• Jamaica
30 Dec 08
I suppose its human nature Kerry however I don’t think I could just hate someone without really knowing them .Actually I don’t think I would hate someone .What I think I could hate was their attitude if I really knew them and on line I would hate their views. Furthermore no one is all bad so you should only hate those things about their personality that you consider distasteful and I think hating aspects of their personality is different from hating them entirely .With regards to hating someone online ,I would have to say that I hate their views as expressed in some of their responses or discussion and once again that is not the same as hating them. In fact I may hate someone's opinions (or should I say dislike sine hate is such a strong word ) in one of their discussions but still be honest enough to admit that I alike their view in another discussion or response. When you hate someone you don’t have that flexibility because the person never changes only their opinions.
Good discussion Kerry and like you I find persons who do this to be just shallow.
@kerriannc (4279)
• Jamaica
30 Dec 08
Hello ronnyb in the early days there were some persons who was talking about it but I never understand what they were talking about. Because of this alot of those persons has left. I don't hate because if I did I would have a heavy heart and maybe now suffering from high blood pressure and a stroke.lol Forgiveness is so much better. I have cross lines with some persons here but we eventually becomes friend because we show respect for each other. It is all about respect even if you don't know the person face to face. I can't seeing myself just going around doing hateful thing because it would be against what I know is right.
@gaylalou690 (361)
• Philippines
1 Jan 09
like what u said its human nature. well we dont have different attitude can u imagined where almost a billion people but we interact with each other. what u need to do is to be humble and love the person that involves to u. eventhough they dont like some people around u or making bully to u what matters most is u know urself and there are people who trusted u and know u more.
@ronaldinu (12422)
• Malta
1 Jan 09
Yes I do agree with you. WE have our own likes and dislikes. there is nothing much you can do about it. Unfortunately my face does show. So people can read through me if I like them or not.
@syeryn (573)
• United States
29 Dec 08
I think there is always a reason when someone dislikes another although they may not always state what that reason may be. Perhaps giving the reason would only make things worse so they remain quiet and simply do not associate with the other person.
@bunnybon7 (50973)
• Holiday, Florida
30 Dec 08
personally i love most people and always give them the benefit of the doubt. usually i think they have good reason for being a certain way, or having certain beliefs. its something they've been raised with. i believe in live and let live. i never attack anyone unless they do me or my family or friends first.
@starry301 (71)
• United States
30 Dec 08
Hmm I wonder why people don't dislike people for no reason - without meeting. But I have to admit I've been a victim of that :x. Oh well xD . Good luck on my lot
