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i've been in that situation once, not talking with my mom. it's really sad and not right not talking with her. so i got up the courage, gave her flowers and had a heart to heart talk. we cleared out all our issues and our relationship is better. i do hope you can work out your issues as well. there is no use delaying it. i'm sure it would all turn out well.

Why are you not talking to your mother? Was it something that your sister started? A month is way to long to NOT talk to Mom. I believe that no matter what you should never ever hold a grudge with a family member specially your Mom or Dad. I realy hope that you think hard about the silent treatment your giving Mom. She is your Mom, she is the one who carried you, gave birth to you, made sure you were clean and fed. Please, please, please call your Mom, its the holidays and you really shouldn't end the year or begin a new year stagnet in your relationship with Mom. I will be looking forward to hear that things are going good. God Bless, listen to your heart not your head!