How do i get out of a relationship when i am still so in love with the person?

Philippines
December 29, 2008 10:34am CST
Friends, please help me how to get out of a relationship with someone that i really love but i know very well that our relationship will not work out in the end. I am so depressed since last night and havent slept a wink at all. I know it just wouldnt work out. Im in love with a self centered guy who only wants to take and take and doesnt want to give. I wanted to get out while i am still whole. I dont want to get out when i am already too broken that i cant pick up the pieces anymore. Please, help me how i should do it.... and please tell me how will i tell him. I dont want to hurt him the way i should coz i really love him. I really dont want to leave him, but i have to do it. I know I should love myself more before i could give my all to other people. Please pray for me that I will the have the strength to withstand all these things.
1 response
dreamleaper17
@dreamleaper17 (702)
• Philippines
29 Dec 08
hi there, julienne_joy.. i think there's no other way but to just be honest with him. Tell him what you've just written: you know very well that the relationship is not going to work because he's too self-centered.. i will be praying for you.. just remember, God's will is "good, pleasing and perfect" and anything that doesn't give you peace is not worth keeping. leave the past behind and move forward to 2009! happy myLotting!