Would you cheat on the person who cheated on you or would you just end it?

no...if i found that my boyfriend cheated on me, i will tell him the truth that i already knew it and i have the proof...i dont wanna be a cheater like him... lucky that my boyfriend not a cheater anymore after he's with me... ^^

Just end it. Tell him you knew about it. Dont do the same mistakes that he did because it wil; only ruin you as a person. A wrongdoing can never be corrected by anoter wrongdoing. Just end the relationship if you cant take it anymore BUT if you love him so much, there is always a room for forgiveness & second chances. :P

I would just end the relationship. I would still be hurt even if i cheated to, so theres no reason to do that. I have tryed once that a girlfriend cheated on me. I choose to forgive her... then a couple of months later, i found out that she had been cheating on me 3 times again.. and then it ended. So another time, i would just end it the first time.

I would just leave.... without saying a word. If I have an undenaible proof that she is cheating than I would kknow that it is the end of our relationship. There is no intimacy, no honesty no relationshp and thus no love.

Just stop wasting your time, the issue is not going to changed anymore. What has been done is done.... You can' changed it, better to leave the relationship, take the high-road,its best to bow out with your head held high and to not look back...

i think i wud dump her after i know of her but it wud not be just at the moment but i wud like to j=know of the reson why she did that to me...so that it doesn't happen another time.... judging people is not an easy task after all...

Hi there Arkansos! I am so not into getting into relationships or even a fling just to get even. I believe that if you can't really forgive and forget, you should just end the relationship.

If you use a word him, there is a high probability that right people would read it. There are more ladies here than males. LOL! For me, I would not like cheating her as best way to punish her is to leave her with her partner and enjoy the life. It is worthless spending time with each other when there is no love present with each!

Is not the best. There is nowhere two wrongs can make a right. I would just forget everything, but if there is next time, its over.

I would just end it. There is no point in hurting the other person even if they hurt you really bad. You should always try and be the better person. Sometimes that doesn't work but eventually you will feel better down the road knowing you were. And besides would you really want cheating on your consious. I despise people that cheat on anything or anyone. I wouldn't want to stoop down to there level.

I'm with pretty well everyone else to this point. Just end it. You returning the favour does nothing for you, or your relationship. All it does is bring you down to her level. At least with this, as much as it hurts, you can leave with your head held high, with the satisfaction that you can do better, and did what you could to see it through. By returning the favour you're not only hurt, but you've brought yourself just as low as she did. (For the record - my "she" also refers to "he/she".)