Have you ever been in a serious relationship?
By love_hurt
@love_hurt (4)
Philippines
December 30, 2008 3:51am CST
I always wonder what the motivation behind that questioon is...and common guys it seems to be a theme with women. I dont think a man would ever ask that of a woman. So what is the point girls? Are women trying to determine if the man is woman-trained? What is it so important to know if someone has been in a relainship? What does qualify a person as?
Girls let us know :)
3 responses
@my_january (967)
• Philippines
1 Jan 09
Have you ever been in a serious relationship?
As what I have understand with your post, you are pertaining as to why women ask that question to men? Am I right? I think this question, not only applies to woman asking man, but also, I have heard a lot of men asking women about it. I think answering that question will determine the capability of a certain person (man or woman) in being on a relationship wherein important aspects of being a human is involved (serious relationship). This question also determines how the person handles their partner, what are their expereinces (what they have been through) and the lessons they have learned. I think that question simply leads to knowing the person MORE, before anything else.
@jesbellaine (4139)
• Philippines
30 Dec 08
Hi THere.
Yes, I am always with a serious relationship. Right now, I am in a relationship with a guy whom I trust and love most. For me, being with a committed relationship is like a bond or foundation for both partners. It helps us to be more loyal and faithful to one another. That is my own opinion. I don't want to be involve with a guy who is afraid of committing because what is the point of having a relationship if you will just play with the fire... :)
Thank you for the discussion! Happy New Year! And Happy Mylotting! Cheers!
@amazingheart (781)
• Philippines
30 Dec 08
LOL love_hurt, I dont remember i asked question like this to any of my date hehehe...if you act like a women-trained, i just delicately or point it out. :)) I feel those who ask this may be expressing their opinon rather than gathering information. I am sure there are beter ways of communicating effectively.
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