relationships ,,,,, are not meant to be always wid me............

A man had a woman for period. The man would turn more and more neglect the woman. It is normal today. You know this only through internet. It is not a good way to know a person. Because we can pretend when on the internet. Maybe he told something is not truth, you did not conscious at that time. Now you should know it...

Hello There Jonny! I have been involved with online relationship for four years. I met him online while I was surfing and chatting when I was in my freshman year in college. We started as friends as well then after a year, we were together. He is in abroad and I am in the Philippines. We decided to meet after my graduation but it never happened... He was really older than me and I trust that he can handle going here to meet my parents for formality and to get to know each other... One thing led to another, we always fight over small things… He was angry and I was frustrated with our relationship. It seems real but in reality, you can’t even hug him… or can’t even be comforted by him because he is not here with me… Suspicions grow… I did things just to check on him online, and he does too. I thought that I would never meet another man that I will love as much as I love that guy but you know what, time heals the wound… though it will always be there… you will never forget that but you will learn to forgive… so… take it slowly, if you think that both of you doesn’t have a chance on being together as a couple, try to slowly move on with your life… at least he said that his feelings were fading day by day… from those words, you can use that to get over him. Enjoy your life with the people who love you and those who are there with you right now. You will get through it… and you will be stronger. Trust me! I have been there and I am so happy with my man right now. I love him more than anyone that I loved before… When you love make sure that you love the present more… because he is a gift. ? Goodluck! Thanks for the discussion! Happy New Year and Happy HOlidays! Cheers!

your profile says you are only 20 and your bf must be of similar age. Genuine long-lasting relationships at this age is very rare. This is the age when you meet various people of the opposite gender and its more of an infatuation than pure love. It is not the end of the world for you or for relations. I suggest you give your bf the cold shoulder and try and mix with other boys of your age. You will also understand whether you really love him or its calf-love.

While you're sitting there waiting by the phone waiting for him to call and wasting precious time of each day thinking about him, his enjoying life, laughing it up with his friends and drinking and smoking his a$# off. And his a liar, that's already a bad sign. He is not worth the time, the trouble or the effort. Cut your losses now and move on. There is something much better out there for you. Lose his number, block your phone from taking his calls and go hang out with your girlfriends. Find a new hobby, so that your time is occupied and won't think of him. Keep yourself busy. Trust me if he was interested, he would know what he wanted and move mountains to keep you happy and made sure that he treated you right. And don't let him guilt trip you, about wondering or inquiring about his smoking or drinking habits, you have a right to know, don't fall for the flipping the script move.

Have you guys met each other in person? It is hard to be in an online relationship. There are too much things you are risking. What I suggest now to you is to try to forget him. Move on with your life. You can do better. Don't wait for him.

sad to hear. my boyfriend used to be like that. he used to lie and take me for granted. i always cry just because of him. when i'm already tired of understanding his attitude, i broke up with him. after breaking up with him, he came back to me and said that he already changed. i already forgave him and we're together again. i suggest that u should keep yourself busy and try to appreciate the people who are always there for you. spend time with your friends and your family. cheer up! don't worry. i believe in the saying, "everything will be okay in the end, if it's not okay, then it's not yet the end." :))

Relationships are meant to be with you only if they are GENUINE. Don't feel bad about your last one. It happens sometimes and this is life. Nothing stops you from going on further and living your life. Its your life and is completely up to you how you live or what you like. I would suggest that give yourself some time and everything will be all right. That guy was not worthy of your love and care. He must be like 'use and throw' type of guy and so he treated you like that. I am definitely elder than you and ask you to divert your attention towards your hobbies and interests. Do not get carried away by flattering remarks from these kind of guys. Be careful next time and live your life happily. We have been given only one life and it is very precious so don't waste it.

so sorry to hear about this dilemma of yours... its because of such instances that i think that all men are b******s... seriously most of them are... they are so insensitive louts.. well dear, at this point, all i can suggest is to give yourself time... there is no magic formula to force someone to fall in love with you(hell, i wish there was one)... he obviously wasnt the one for you and you werent the one for him."Wanting him is hard to forget,loving him is hard to regret,losing him is hard to accept,but even with all the hurt i've felt,letting go is the most painful yet" so give yourself time,coz they say that TIME is the best healer. Someday, your real prince charming would come your way and this guy,you are crying over would fade into insignificance.. so just fill yourself up with positive thoughts and NEVER EVER give this dude the chance to think that you are heartbroken over him.. it would only boost his ego.. just move on.. maybe your heartmust be broken into a million pieces but always show him that you really dont care whether he is in ur life or not...