Do you think "New Year Resolutions" are still relevant and effective?
By fga2008
@fga2008 (38)
Saudi Arabia
December 30, 2008 12:59pm CST
As the year 2008 ends, some of us are trying to sort-out the things we have done for the last one (1) year. A self-evaluation is made for the accomplishments and failures encountered during the whole year. Sure, all of us have plans and wishes for the coming year. Do you think "New Year Resolutions" are still relevant and effective? What is your opinion?
8 responses
@Rasputant (4)
• United States
30 Dec 08
Most of the time when people decided to do something to improve our lives it doesn't happen, but that doesn't mean the attempt isn't worthwhile. I think the biggest problem with new year resolutions is that we don't do it often enough. Instead of one a year looking to improve those things you know need work how about making your new years resolution to examine your life on a daily basis.
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@fga2008 (38)
• Saudi Arabia
31 Dec 08
Yes, that is true. Sometimes people started with a very nice move and good intentions, but along the way they stopped the things they started. So, they did not accomplish anything at the end. We must be consistent in everything we do. Thanks for responding. Happy New Year!
@thecrazyjogger (3178)
• India
31 Dec 08
not really
if we have the enuf motivation we can start at anytime
new years r not necessary
happy lotting and have a happy new year
@katrhina23 (1282)
• United States
31 Dec 08
New year's resolution serves as a guide for a person. some are serious with it some are not. but atleast its good to have one and wouldnt follow or follow than none at all.
@yoursonlyurs (394)
• India
30 Dec 08
Resolution are just a tag with new year.
an annual tag....
why dont we make it a daily tag in our life
hope you agree with me?
@LaurenInLA (2270)
• United States
30 Dec 08
Absolutely! I just read an article today that stated that rather than writing New Years resolutions, you should write New Years intentions. The thought process is that by using the word resolution, you set yourself up for failure ie the first time that you don't do something that you've resolved to do, you fell guilty and instead of jumping back on the wagon like you would with an intention you throw up your hands and give up. Whatever you call them, I am making resolutions/intentions for the year. I accomplished two of the three that I made last year by writing an mission statement for each resolution; writing a list of why I wanted to accomplish each one so that when I was weak I could give myself some incentive, and by creating monthly, weekly and daily goals. I also assessed my progress each week. I always start with an analysis of the preceding year to see where I've succeeded and where I need to put a little more effort. Best of luck to you in the coming year.
@UK_Shree (3603)
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30 Dec 08
I think so, it's important that people set goals for themselves. That way, they are working towards something, usually something that will help them to 'better' themselves. However, it really important that people set realistic goals for themselves so that they are likely to achieve them, rather than feel bad for not getting where they hoped to be!