Are you Looking for a Super Hero/ Beauty Queen in your Partner?

United States
December 30, 2008 1:05pm CST
I have seen so many of many friends break up with their partners so often that I now wonder ...what are these relationships based on? Are we seeking Super Heroes/ Beauty Queens for our partners? What are the five most important things you wish for and seek in your partner? Things which you definitelt cannot compromise on..
2 responses
liisafiat
@liisafiat (659)
• Latvia
30 Dec 08
There are no PERFECT partners. Everybody will have some `minuses`. Some more, some less. I know that many guys think that I am somewhat perfect, but getting closer: they realize that I am far away from perfect. And than they becomes disappointed. I don`t know why, but there are MANY people out there who are looking for SUPERMAN and SUPERWOMAN in their partners! In this way, it will never work out. About those five things: 1. Pure and good heart. 2. Wise mind 3. Not a fool- being able to stand and protect himself and his woman! 4. Body and voice. 5. Good relations with his family.
rashmi1979
@rashmi1979 (112)
• United States
30 Dec 08
I think its good that people walk away soon enough otherwise the heart ache will be deeper for you. I am sure your soul mate is somewhere out there and you will meet him when the time is right! Not that , he will be a Super Hero or that the relationship will be effortless :) Also, I really appreciate that you have put 'Good Relations with his Family' as one of the 5 points. :) Thanks for Contributing & Happy Lotting!
abccba
@abccba (1914)
• Denmark
30 Dec 08
not really.. of cause i care about how she looks, but she don't have to be perfect. The most important thing is that she understands the way i thinks, and accepts the way i am.
rashmi1979
@rashmi1979 (112)
• United States
30 Dec 08
True...It is very important that your partner shares a certain healthy amount of mental frequency with you and cherishes you for who you are! Perhaps , thats the reason why most men try to find a girl in the image of their monthers! :) Thanks for responding! Happy Lotting!