losing friend just because one girl!!!

Indonesia
December 30, 2008 9:37pm CST
did u have losing your friend just because you and your friend love same girl? i think thats not good, i will prefer friend than girlfriend because friend is always orever but girlfriend not for forever. so friendship is important
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@Soccer21 (17)
• United States
31 Dec 08
I think it friends fight and aren't friends over a girl then they weren't really friends to begin with. The each person in the frienship should want the other person to be happy and sometimes that means making sacrafices, even if it isn't the easiest thing. I think its the dumbest thing to fight over a girl or boy. They last only a moment in time when friendship at it's best last til you die. True friends shouldn't let girls/boys or anything trival come in between them like that.
@jzqt27 (541)
• Canada
31 Dec 08
no, i will never do that. if this did happend, like if we like the same girl, i will definitely pick friend over a girl. the reason is that he is my friend and finding a good friend is harder then finding a good girl.
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@rosdimy (3926)
• Malaysia
31 Dec 08
Whwn I read the topic of your discussion I remember a close friend of mine who distanced away from me because of one girl. I was never in love this girl. It just happened that she was one of the popular girls in college so everybody knew her. For some reason this classmate of mine thought I was a competitor. As a result we never became close again. Several times I tried to speak to him but he refused to respond. The girl is now married to another friend of ours. I think breaking off a relationship over a girl is silly. Our frienddhip never returned to what it was before. He did not get the girl. all the best, rosdimy
@sivanj (1263)
• India
31 Dec 08
welcome to mylot my friend. it is so good to hear such matured statement from you. i have not been in love so i have no personal experience. but what i have observed from my friends and their love stories is that guys tend to move away from friend's circle when they fall in love. i have seen this in some cases. i don't know if i can generalize. similarly i can't comment on what gals do! so having seen these, what u say looks very matured and good. happy mylotting.
@sonusd (1547)
• India
31 Dec 08
aia think if who who loose friends for his girl friend it is his fault not of that girl because it is the decission of that guy
• India
31 Dec 08
damn! u too? it happened to me n i was soo sad AND angry i mean wht the hell does tht mean??? we were friends for so so long but like they say.. crazy in love happy lotting and have a blessed new year