Ex-husbands/Ex wives?
By suracizgurl
@suracizgurl (51)
United States
11 responses
@farocop44 (447)
• Canada
10 Nov 06
I'm curious, you know there are two sides to every story. I wonder how your ex would describe you? Maybe he is a monster, or maybe its an equal thing. Dont know you so cant say
@farocop44 (447)
• Canada
13 Nov 06
No that wouldnt be me. A monster is someone who gets angry and lashes out when killing someone. I dont get angry when......
@suracizgurl (51)
• United States
10 Nov 06
Don't even go there with me ok? I will not go into details as to what kind of man he is (or is not). All I can tell you is that I am not a thief and I don't go through life constantly hurting people...intentionally. Would he call me a B***h? Sure he would because I don't put up with his behavior and antics.
So the answer to your question? I CAN say I am not a monster. Sounds as though you have potential though.
@caramello (4377)
• Australia
9 Nov 06
I used to, and did try very hard for the children's sake, but he over stepped just once too often. Now am soon to face him at my daughters' wedding, should be very interesting!
@angeliamj (632)
• United States
9 Nov 06
My ex and I can't stand one another and it's really sad because we have 2 children together. I won't go into details other than to say he had a real sly attorney and he now has custody of our children. I haven't seen them in over 3 years and haven't talked to the in months. He's a jerk and keeps the kids from me to "punish me" I guess. He always controlled me and was physically and mentally abusive towards me, now that I'm happily remarried, he uses the kids because he knows that's the ONLY way to hurt me anymore. I know his day will come, I just hope it's not to late for the sake of the relationship with my babies. : (
@suracizgurl (51)
• United States
9 Nov 06
I thought my ex was a monster! Karma will take care of him! You hang in there!
@lizabeth (666)
• United States
9 Nov 06
I never got along with my ex after we divorced until like a year ago. We divorced 19 yrs. ago. He was never a part of my sons life but his mother was. When my father passed away a year ago I saw my ex and we made peace. Although I don't always agree with him I do try to get along.
@suracizgurl (51)
• United States
9 Nov 06
You are soooo fortunate! We don't even speak because when we do...it's World War III. He's the kind that's always right...ever know one of those?
@MothersWorkAtHome (966)
• United States
9 Nov 06
For a long time my x and I could not get a long. It took over three years before he finally started acting like a man. I think it means a lot when you have children to have good communication between the parents divorced or not. It's sad when parents cant get a long at least for the kids.
@suracizgurl (51)
• United States
9 Nov 06
I was hoping that would happen with mine but we've been divorced since '96 and he gets worse as each year passes. That's great that you get along now.
@the_vicar (1477)
• United States
10 Nov 06
OMG what WAS I thinking???? Actually, I dated and married very classy people. I wouldn't have gone out with someone who wasn't classy or high minded, nice looking, neat and educated. But I don't talk to any of them any more...boy friends or ex......
@suracizgurl (51)
• United States
9 Nov 06
Good for you! Falling in love is the greatest thing but don't make hasty decisions and marry too young...take my advice!
@Mitzi72 (20)
• United States
28 Feb 07
I have 2 ex-husbands. No children with either. I get along great with my first ex if I see him. Give him a hug and talk like old friends. The second one I will talk to if I have to but could do without it. The funny one is that I get along great with his other ex-wife and still talk to her and see my ex-step-son. We think maybe we should start an ex-wives club. :)
