Topic Basher
By Malinium
@Malinium (76)
United States
December 31, 2008 1:18pm CST
Im New on the Mylot scene ,and I have a question for the Vets....Is this site filled with Topic Bashers? You know who they are,You can say sunflowers are your favorite flower but by the end of the discussion you're an idiot because you didn't say that they were roses.It's like some people look for topics just to respond negetivly to.Its Just a topic for crying out loud!!!Or does negetive responses make the blog "juicy"?Does everyone have to know the Theory of Relativity to have a good discussion? Whatever happen to just having a fun, hilarious, discussion? Cant we all just get along? Somebody give me the Whats What.....
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9 responses
@morningstar369 (495)
• United States
1 Jan 09
I've only been here for a little over 2 months, I have had one encounter with a person that was looking for trouble. She worded her discussion in a way that it was easy to misunderstaand, and I did. I read her question to a friend that is an attorney and she misunderstood it as well. Her comment was that it was writen poorly. Anyway this person jumped on me for misunderstanding and it went of little. Then the next day My star went from a 5 to a 4. I got it back though. I havn't had any other problems. It my be the discussions I respond to I'm not looking for confrontation. I would love to find some that were just crazy fun and zany. Not many like that. It usually is more serious or people looking for information or help with a decision or just curious. Have some fun here and start saomething funny to get crazy with.
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@LuvBr0wn13s (765)
• United States
31 Dec 08
Where's the fun if we all agree? Yes I like Daffodils....yep me too, yep me too.......uh-huh so do I. Blah! Now I am not advocating those tha twill just willfully insult others, but I like a little spice and variety. If you disagree with me by all means tell me why? It makes for more interesting reading.
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@Malinium (76)
• United States
31 Dec 08
Check me out though. I say Kobe You say Lebron.I say Kobe the best on the planet.You say Bron Bron is the best in the universe. Ill probably say you right you right, but kobe blah blah blah.And you'll say I feel ya but Bron Bron whoop de whoop. And in all our disagreeing well have to agree both got major game.You've had discussions like this wit partnas plenty of times & you NEVER agree!!!Respect ing each others mind thats all- cause at the end of the day yall still partnas.not the biggest idiot for going wit lebron
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@cassandralynn (1084)
• United States
1 Jan 09
Your right! You can be in the best spirits and post a touching heart felt reply to a discussion and some lame a$$ ignorant drunk will come along and call you a "devil worshiper" and that you have no right posting on mylot and they hope you die etc.. And your like " whhhat the F&%##??" .. Oh and if you yell " Can't we just get a long"? they will call you a skirt wearing sissy and you need to be taken to the back and be beaten with a cat of nine tails until you grow some balls!!Welcome to mylot Malinium
I hope you know I was just kidding dear!
But honestly, you will sometimes get topic bashers. It's not worth getting into it with them not unless you don't care about earning money on this site because usually discussions with arguments and bashers usually get deleted and when your reply within a discussions gets deleted so does your $$.. Be nice and get paid or be yourself and don't get $$..LOL...Half of the MyLot population is here for friendship and not money.Some people are here for both, $ and friends and others are just here for the $$..
Don't worry. Just enjoy yourself here and be yourself and you'll make lotz of friends!
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@jtr115 (722)
• United States
1 Jan 09
There are some Negative Nancys here, but they are far outnumbered by honest and decent people. Even if they disagree, they will almost always be respectful.
I enjoy the conversation here better than the website of my local newspaper. There are trolls and troublemakers there who have been banned several times, but they re-register under new names and continue their attacks. myLot has a much better system and staff who care about keeping this a fun and safe place.
Have a fantastic time posting here at myLot. Also, since it's now after midnight as I post this, Happy New Year!
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@lala766 (239)
• United States
31 Dec 08
I say just ignore them and keep making your posts. I ran into a few of those they like people to go back and forth with them. I chose not too. It is too bad people are like that but it is what it is. Just focus on yourself and your post and have fun with discussions.
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@thebeaddoodler (4262)
• Lubbock, Texas
1 Jan 09
Well there's a difference in disagreeing with your opinion and implying or outright saying you're an idiot for having the opinion you have. Some people don't know the difference. Just like in a real gathering with real people you'll find people here on myLot that feel they're the only ones entitled to an opinion and every one should agree with them.
They're best ignored. They're looking for attention and by ignoring them you're dealing them a worse blow than by arguing with them.
@kerriannc (4279)
• Jamaica
1 Jan 09
Online life is just as offline. You just has to ignore the negatives and continue to trend on. If you lost your purpose why you join MYLOT then you will get frustrate and leave. Just always remember what you want and why you are here.
Welcome to Mylot.
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@natsvelascotan (665)
• Philippines
2 Jan 09
True true true .. there are really some who just feel like contradicting discussions ... it can be hard to reprimand them but them but what we can do is try to supportive to fellow MyLotters
@strawberrybaby39 (2086)
• United States
8 Jan 09
I agree I think all people should get a long. But some people dont. I try to get a long with everyone. I never bash on anyone that to me is never fun.