I do not forgot those days.

India
December 31, 2008 10:55pm CST
I am a married woman. And by God's grace i have very loving and caring in laws.Before 3 years i went to the hospital with my father-in-law. He had some problem in his mouth. After testing the doctor said that he is suffering from mouth cancer. We stared the treatment for this. After some days we admit him in the hospital. All the time i was with him. I did everything for him what is in my hands. Almost 3 months he was admitted in the Cahndigarh hospital. And i was with him for all the time. But after 3 months he was no more and died. This time was very critical for me. I never forget that time because he took his last breath in front of my eyes. Only me with him that time and my husband was in waiting room because doctor did not gave permission that more than one member to stay with him. When i see or heard any one to suffering from cancer. that time my eyes getting starting wet. because that time i remember the scene of my father's death. he was very loving and caring for me. He loves me like his on daughter. Now i miss him so much.
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5 responses
@mariposaman (2959)
• Canada
19 Jan 09
I am sorry for your loss. It is never pleasant to lose someone you love and so suddenly too. Cancer can be such a brutal disease and is such an epidemic.
• United States
18 Jan 09
I can truly sympathize with you hunny! *Sending you huggs!* I watched both of my parents die of cancer and it was six months apart. This really messed me up badly. But worst of all in October 2007 I found out I had cancer. My cancer was of the thyroid. They removed it and I am all better now! But watching our loved ones die of cancer is the worst pain of all because you feel powerless to not be able to help them!
@janjee (160)
• Philippines
1 Jan 09
It must have been difficult seeing him die in front of you. Cancer is killing 20 thousand people every single day. Let's pray that he is happy in wherever he is right now. It's actually natural for us to miss someone who has been very close to us, especially someone who has cared for us dearly. But maybe one day you'll be able to get used to his absence, just remember that he might be watching you right now and would NOT want you to be sad.
@summta (65)
• China
1 Jan 09
I am so sorry to hear your experience, and so sorry for your father-in-law. It seems that the life is so flimsy once it meets cancer, one of my colleague also surrfered from cancer a month ago and is in curing, and all the colleagues in our company tried our best to donate to her and help her, we all hope that god bless her. Health is more important for us than money and glory, and so on. So we must take good care for ourself and our failmy members, because only when you own good health, you can easily own others what you want.
@manoj1502 (854)
• India
2 Jan 09
Sorry to hear that.But see the God wanted you to stay with him and serve.The person whom you take cared for three months will be very happy about it.Every start as to be ended we cant stop it.Take Care