Ahhh inlaws back to home!!!

I can really feel for you. For the first 10 years of my married life I stayed with my in-laws. Though they are very nice people and never interfered with anything, yet I missed my privacy and my independence. This is especially true for newly married couple. And of course all girls get married to have their own homes, where they can do whatever they feel like. Decorate the house, the kitchen, buy whatever you want to, cook whatever you like, go to the market etc. In my in-laws place my hubby would just hand over the money to his parents and they took care of everything. While it may have been hassle-free for me, especially with my baby and me working, I too yearned for my independence. And the worst part was that if ever I expressed any interest to cook something or work in the kitchen, my MIL was very sweet about it but then she would leave the entire thing on me and just walk out and relax. Its never that we shared and did something together. Also if I ever requested my FIL to bring something as per my choice, he would always make excuses and buy whatever my MIL wanted. So it was quite tough for me.

Your inlaws came back.Now you both go to outing and enjoy your third honeymoon.I'm very sorry that your second honeymoon not lingered for long time.Yes we want to get our spouses lonely and some times we get that opportunity.We enjoy that moment very much._Perhaps you are living in a join family.I share your feelings.Wish you a happy new year.