What would you do when a married man show interesting on you?

Your reply to the man should be 'go to hell.'This type man is crazy for woman.The married man is 20 years older than you.Then you are almost his daughter's age.Just avoid that crazy man.I'm also a married man.A married man should not be unfaithful to his wife.Thank you.Wish you a happy new year.

You might want to think hard about something like that. You do not know if he is really being truthful to you. By saying that he will divorce his wife then he is proving to you that he is not the kind of man that really sticks to his commitments. He is going to divorce his wife because he doesn't want to make the relationship work anymore. He may say that he is serious with you now but what if he has a change of heart (again!) after a while and leave you too. I would suggest that you have nothing to do with such a guy.

Shame on you! Those foreign devils like to play with the naive girls who know a little English and are too sure of themselves. By the way, please learn English better before you fool about with foreigners. Why not try to correct the mistakes in your writing. Good luck!

Be straight forward that you are not interested in any such kind of action. Better look for some one else who is agreeable to your decision. How long they are goiing to come back to you if you are not bold enough they are going to trouble you in any such kind of manner.Happy mylotting and have a nice day.

I'd tell on him to his wife and see if he was truthful or not, but first beat the crap out of him for thinking I'd fall to such lame approaches by an old geezer =D

Well,its up to you if you wanted to enter a not-so-normal-world-of-relationship. If you love him and you are ready for the things other people might think of then why not! go! But if you are dreaming of having your own someday, like YOUR OWN HUSBAND and not someone's-ex-husband. . .or YOUR OWN FAMILY and not from someone else's family. . well think again!! Its good to have second hand devices/gadgets . . But its not good to think that you are not the first one he will always think of whenever he's at work or whenever there is an occassion. His full attention is not with you all the time.Ofcourse he have his girls. . his daughters. . they can always have their father whenever they want to. . I know it'll be hard for you. . this is just our opinion. But its really up to you to decide. . if you can accept or if you are ready for the unique challenges you will face.

Forget about the guy. Getting involved with a married guy is not a good idea. It doesn't matter if the guy said that he is going to get a divorce soon. The fact that he is still very much married is enough for you to stay away from him. Besides, what made you so sure that he is telling you the truth about getting a divorce?

I would turn him down. I dated a man that was separated from his wife and then they got back together but not before I fell head over heals for him. He still wanted to see me and I did and the guilt got me. I would not knowingly go for a married man no matter what he told me.

Welcome to Mylot, shadowsober. I would ask this guy to call me in a couple of years once the divorce is final. Ever heard this before: "Why buy the cow when the milk is free?" Be careful sounds like he has commitment issues.

Run!! That sounds far too complicated.

In all honesty I would stay far far away from him for he is telling you fibs (lies) I wouldn't trust him he just seems like he is out just to hurt not only his wife but himself as well don't get caught up in something like this. I do hope this guy get's a clue and smartens up.

puh-lease...there probably is no agreement with his wife...at least not one she knows of...and what exactly are they diong for their girls even if there is such an agreement...those girls are old enoguh to realize their parents are full of it if any of what he says is true. So if it was me....either I would call his wife up and call his bluff just to verify the story or I would just make him feel like the little man he is. I have no patience for married men acting like idiots....in fact I would call the wifey and let her deal with him.

I will not believe, I mean, he has been with his wife for years and ended up saying that he doesn't love him anymore, then how can you be sure that another relationship in his life will last? Don't make things complicated for yourself and don't give him the chance of making your life complicated too. if it happen to me. I will be careful and I will keep in mind, there are lots of fishes in the sea... there is someone for you who is definitely not married yet. Just give it time for the right person to come into your life.

I would say run away from this guy as far as possible. I am not saying that he is lying and not to trust him. I am saying that its not worth the hurt you are going to get eventually. One lesson i have learnt the hard way in life is to not trust men! This person is married and there is a woman who can always chose not to divorce him. And being a legal wife, she would always get more precendence to you. If after a while, she or he realises that they wanna try to save their marriage,then you are doomed. When there are so many unmarried men available around you,then why bother with a guy who might be actually trying to take advantage of you!

I agree with the other poster. This is not a man that you can trust. He should get his marriage streightenrd out before looking for another relationship. This type of person will continue to look for other relationships out side his marriage. If he does this to his wife then he will do it to you. Besides do you want a relationship with his daughters too. They will be a big part of the package even if they at the age of getting ready to be on their own. They are your age it appears. They will or can make your life miserable.

Hi There! Welcome year 2009! I know that feeling though in different situation. When I was in college, I met a guy who has crush on me… I don’t like him since I am not that much into having a relationship; I am more focus with my study and friends. He befriended me then he started asking me out… when I agreed to have lunch with him since he was nice, a girl approached me and said that she is the wife of that man… oh boy I was shocked… I did not know… so I just explained to him the real score and what the real story is! After few days, the guy talked to me and I said to leave me alone. I told him straight that I don’t want to be the cause of broken family… and I believe in KARMA…. I don’t want to experience having a man cheating on me like what was doing with his wife at that moment… so there… He left. I just hope he realize the worth of his wife… and kids… If I am in your position, I would definitely avoid him until he sort things out… They are still married… and even if he said that his wife is seeing somebody else… they may live in the same room etc… and lot of things can happen overnight with husband and wife… besides, they should divorce legally first before they enter into a relationship and fix their lives first before you two starts to really have a relationship… Thanks for the discussion! Happy Mylotting! Cheers!

hmm... this is sticky business. But personally for me, i would just treat him as a friend. Until he REALLY gets divorced than it's another matter altogether. I mean, i don't know his wife and it's all based on what he says. How am i to know if he is lying or not. Not that i doubt his sincerity, but... i won't want to be a family breaker. Maybe his wife isn't seeing anyone and wants to salvage the marriage. You know stuff like these happens. Suddenly, one party wants to salvage the marriage. If that happens and you agree to be with the man, then where does that leave you? What happens if after 2 years and he decides that he doesn't want to divorce his wife? Such questions will cross my mind. But like i've said earlier, if after 2 years he really did get a divorce, and he is still interested in me, then perhaps i would consider going one step further than just being normal friends. =)

It is a sin to do adultery. Run this man who is telling lies which are blatant. My friend he is only telling you what he think you want hear. Those girls are not little they are adults and if he wanted to divorce his wife he would have done it because these girls are capable in handling divorce. Don't make mistakes with your life tell him that you are flatter but not interesting.

I certainly would not trust him. I was in a similar situation. About 2 years ago I got involved with a married man. At first, I didn't know he was married because he didnt tell me. After I finally found out, he went on to tell me that he was unhappy and wanted to divorce her, and the only reason he was with her was he was afraid she would hurt herself of their kids. He promised within a few months, he would reveal our relationship to her and divorce her. Well months went by and he never told her. She ended up finding out about me from his phone bill, where he had called me. I found out from his wife, that I wasn't the only person he was seeing. See he never had any intentions of leaving his wife. He was just a player. They only thing good that came out of the who situation was my 16 month old son, which he has nothing to do with. Chances are that if he will see you while with his wife that he will do the same to you. So my advice to you is to save yourself a lot of heartache and tell him to move on. Also, as long as he is married/commited to another woman, he will never be yours.