Choose: Happy BUT Wrong, Sad BUT Right?

What if both the person you love and someone who loves you are same... think something positive buddy... Its not that bad as you think...

chooese someone you like is very important . it seems my boy friend and i are not getting along well these days and i begin to hate him .

Go for? Do you mean marry? I would never marry the one I love, so I woiuld stay with the one that loves me.But if you meant be intimate or at least be boyfriend-girlfriend, then I would go for the one I love.Even if I could be with him just once, it would last me a lifetime.

When you are happy everything is right and when you are sad everything is wrong... neither suite your options.

Most of the time, I'd choose happy but wrong, but first I've got to add some content to the idea of wrong. Wrong simply means that it is not beneficial to my life materially. Perhaps I have to sacrice a job, some time and get nothing in return. That's what I mean with "Wrong". I believe we all start our lives taking from others before we know it, we are all alive because we have took so many things from the people (parents and friends) that had willingly gave them to us. So, we chould be ready to give back in return to someone else. The choice of Happy but wrong is made because I believe that true happiness comes from giving your love to someone you love and care about.

I'd be quoting Tobey Maguire [or Spiderman, you choose]: "In order to do what's right, we have to be steady. Even if it means giving up your dreams." So, yeah, doing what's right is more important.

Being right is my top priority. I do not care if this policy will ever bring every joys for me or not but I have dedicatedly tried to follow that avenue, and I'll do so. I do not believe in happiness that is short existent and comes at the cost of compromising with moral values.

Personally I would pass on either of these people, I can't be with a person who doesn't care about me or a person that I don't like.

It's always easier to be the one with the power, you're loved but don't love. To be in love and not loved causes nothing but pain.

I feel like I have been there many times! I have learned from each mistake though. It seemed all the people that liked me and wanted to be with me are the ones I didn't want. But the ones I really love (or thought I did) didn't feel the same about me and would always end up breaking my heart. It is really nice to be in a relationship where you both feel the same about each other. It was a big change for me. And I love it!

It sounds like a very sad situation.It seems to me you have got to be honest and come clean with this person and tell them you like them,after all what have you got to lose,besides maybe they did not think they had a chance with you and have not bothered.It is worth a chance.

I went for a person that I love but who DID NOT GIVE A DAMN about me. That was a DAMN good lesson! So.... Now my answer is: I WOULD GO FOR A PERSON that LOVES ME even if I don`t like that person very much. Why? Because I believe that with a time I might start to love and like that person as much as he likes and loves me. Because this is something that we can learn during a longer period of time. Besides: I can not understand those who DONT GIVE a damn about You WHEN YOU love them so much!! (and maybe are ready to become slaves because of them!) I mean, I could not be such person...Great I fell for such person, lol but now when I think the opposite way: I REALIZE THAT I WOULD NEVER DO SUCH discearing of a person that adores ME!