Do you accept to marry a not virgin girl ?

Hi. Your discussion mainly targets male mylotters but since your topic interest me I'd just like to add my veiw. I very often have guys posing the 'Are you a virgin question' or making the 'You look like a virgin' comment. I am beyond annoyed with this so I usually flip the coin on them by asking if they are a virgin and then stating that I am not interested in them if they are not. If it is important that I be a virgin for my husband then the same is true for me where he is concerned. If a guy wants a virgin for a wife then he too should remain a virgin until then. I really think more women ought to take control of their lives and not allow males to dictate to them what is right and what is wrong as very often they do so to satisfy their own lust and feelings. We are not instruments who lay about waiting to be used as our masters/owners please and then to be tossed out when we are considered to have lossed our value. lol

hi i dont want virgne girl, after marry me if she is perfectit can ok 4 me that is my view

I totally disagree with those who doesn't marry a none virgin girl. ha ha, it is just funny to think of it. Would someone ask a girl would you marry a none virgin man? I think it should be equal for both gender. :)

The girls real & biggest lost is "Losing Virginity" In Our Country its very hard to someone marry with "Not Virgin" girls unless His Husband Die or any other Real Reasons. We think its very worst to any girls to having XXX & Loose Virginity Without Marry. have a nice day.

In our culture,we as well observed virgin girls.Men don't respect wives that is not virgin before marriage.

on my side i would agree to marry a girl who is not virgin.......bcoz i think a few gals are left virgin and it's too difficult 2 search a untouched one lolzzzz.......even u can't find a virgin boy

I think it depends how much you love the woman. It doesn't bother me at all if she's not a virgin as long as I know that he love me too, and accept me for what I am. I think it's how you think of life, how broad is your thinking,and the maturity. I just don't judge women just because their not virgin anymore, no matter what their humans, we all deserve to fall in love, and being in love. What counts is you both love each other and could face life together, it's better and for worst. Good day to you!

I'd have to know what kind of person she was to be honest. If I felt we were a match, then that would be all right. I do not judge what someone has beforehand because I think more about the here and now but that's just me on that. If she is a virgin, that's fine too. I guess you can say it's what kind of person are they honestly.

you chosed good topic.First tell me frankly are you virgin?

The truth is I have no choice. My girlfriend is my wife, we did not have funny stuff before marriage, but I think the boys you mentioned is crazy, they are selfish, don't pay attention to their partners feeling. I should say if I want to have fun with girl s before marriage, the virgin stuff could not affect my determination.

May be boys prefer virgin girl because they equate virginal with original. If you have a doubt as to how this is possible ask any South Indian to pronounce original.*winks*

Just a single sentence for this. It depends on person. But yeah if a boy wants a girl to be virgin then he must not think about having fun with others.