Are you keen and particular in posting comments to responses received?
By dpk262006
@dpk262006 (58677)
Delhi, India
January 2, 2009 12:50am CST
I have been here on mylot for nearly past two years. I keep responding to the interesting discussions. However, during my tenure I have observed that on an average half of the members, who start new discussions, do not come forward to post their comments on the responses received, due to one reason or other. I feel a post looks dull and drab without comments and counter-comments (it is purely my personal opinion). It always feels great to see some witty comments on your responses. I also feel delighted when my responses to the new and meaningful discussions are commented upon. I also make it a point to post my comments on the responses received to my discussions, however, sometimes, I fail to do so, due to paucity of time. I would welcome those members as my friends (who are NOT in my list of friends), who are keen and who will post their comments on my responses. I’ll try my best to respond to their discussions to those who will come forward with their comments and counter-comments. I would like to add those new members in my list. Are you the one, which I am looking for?![](/Content/images/emotes/happy.gif)
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@mayka123 (16605)
• India
2 Jan 09
For me the discussions here are more like communicating with my friends. So I like to comment and counter comment whenever possible. Sometimes there are some responses where there is nothing that you can countercomment. And sometimes I do not have the time to post in my counter comments. But whenever I get the opportunity I sure comment and counter comment.
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@dpk262006 (58677)
• Delhi, India
2 Jan 09
Yes, I know that you always make a discussion lively and breath fresh air in it, with your comments and counter-comments. You do not fail to post your comments to the deserving responses. Well done and keep it up!!
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@dpk262006 (58677)
• Delhi, India
2 Jan 09
It is my pleasure!
It does not matter, even if you could not reach the figure by the year end. It is an achievement, after all.
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@Roseo8 (2947)
• India
2 Jan 09
Hi Dpk...sorry to disappoint you ,because I am not the one you are looking for....
..Though I just cannot comprehend how you are able to look out for any one when you are surrounded with dense fog???
well on a more serious note,I have also noticed that there are some who are prompt to reply to the responses to their posts,but the majority do not even bother to check and reply to their responses.It may be due to paucity of time or due to their ignorance of the fact that that comments and counter comments not only make the discussion lively,but also add to their earnings......
BTW just a sec Dpk.....Your post is making me wonder whether you have kicked out all your old friends from your list and whether you have started making a brand new friends list at the start of the new year..In that case I would Like to tender an application to you to include me in your new friend's list........And perhaps I am the one you are looking for.......
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@dpk262006 (58677)
• Delhi, India
2 Jan 09
Rose, You caught me!!
I somehow could not mention (it was perhaps not possible also) to mention that those who are already my friends, need not apply fresh. You are already there, so no 'fresh' application is required from your end.........LOl!
How dare I can 'ignore' my existing friends like you.
On the other hand, I wanted that both my existing and fresh one should respond to the discussion.
Now back to your first point, I will not look for someone, when I am enveloped in the dense fog, they will have to search me.....!!LOL!
Thanks for agreeing with my observations that many do not bother to post their comments to our well thought and considered responses. On the other side, I find, there are smart and nice members, who come out with their comments, even if we (me including) have written a 'brief' response to their discussion(s).
Many thanks for making the discussion lively and sparkling with your response, as you also do.![](/Content/images/emotes/thumbup.gif)
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@dpk262006 (58677)
• Delhi, India
2 Jan 09
pl. read in the last line, 'as yoy always do...'
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@dpk262006 (58677)
• Delhi, India
2 Jan 09
pl. read in the last line, 'as you always do...'
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@oldboy46 (2129)
• Australia
2 Jan 09
What I look for when responding to a discussion is some indication that the member who started the discussion actually reads the responses. It can sometimes be unrealistic to expect that every response will receive a comment and that would be solely because of the number of responses. If however there were only a dozen responses then there is no reason why each one which adds to the discussion did not warrant a comment. I do not automatically expect that my response will receive a comment if there are a lot of responses, unless of course I have asked a question about something.
Often when there is a comment to my response I will make a further comment, if I can add anything to my original response. The other reason I would add a comment is if a question is asked of me or if something is added that I did not think about myself. This is a discssion forum and that is what we should be doing here, discussing topics of interest.
There have been instances where I have responded to discussions and later find that the member who started the discussion never makes any comments to any of the responses or awards a best response. Or perhaps gives best response to the first one when it is only a few lines and it does not address the topic. Those sorts of things indicate to me that it is highly likely the member has not read the responses at all. So in the future, I will not bother responding to any more of their discussions because it is a waste of time. It also indicated to me that the person is only intersted in the money and not what others have to say.
Each to their own I guess. I personally do not start many discussions and in fact have not done so fro over 2 years now. My reason is simply that when I am away working it might be days,weeks or even months between times that I can log in to myLot. My personal opinion is that it is rude not to read and acknowledge those who respond and so I prefer not to start discussions until my circumstances change.
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@oldboy46 (2129)
• Australia
2 Jan 09
Not everyone agrees that it is the right thing to do not to start discussions when you cannot get back to read and/or comment in the responses. I guess it is a personal choice but my thinking is that if I find it rude not to read and at least comment on some of the responses, then others will feel/think the same way.
The members of myLot are all different people, we have different customs and beliefs. However, I believe the one thing that we should all have in common is good manners and respect for other members.
Yes there are some members of myLot who find that the money they earn here is a considerable help to them. Perhaps in some instances it is one of the ways that the member and their family can survive financially. I do not criticise them for that at all because we all do what we have to do to make our life better. What I cannot understand though is that some members who say they need their earnings actually penalise themselves. There is no quality and substance in their posts and as a result they make a pittance for each post. Also they do not take advantage of what they can learn from and about other members, other countries and other outlooks on life.
Time to get off my soapbox. lol
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@dpk262006 (58677)
• Delhi, India
2 Jan 09
This is the kind of response, I was looking for
. Your response tells a lot about your attitude and concern towards quality discussions. You are right that every response may not be commented, but the one who deserves it, in my opinion, must be commented upon. Making comments and counter-comments, improves a discussion and widens our thinking process.
I more or less agree with you on the point why do not you start a fresh discussions of yours, I also sometimes avoid starting a new one, because I always intend to comment on the responses received and it requires time.
Many thanks for sparing your valuable time and sharing your thoughts and joining us.
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@dpk262006 (58677)
• Delhi, India
2 Jan 09
Yes, it is a personal choice to start or not to start a discussion.
But once a discussion is started the host should see the responses and appropriate make comments.
Yes, I do agree with you that we should have respect and courtesy for other members, irrespective of their opinions.
All I can is that earning money is not everyone's motto and those who are here for earning money cannot make good bonds and connection with other friends/members here.
Many thanks for your counter comments.
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@nanayangel (7879)
• Philippines
2 Jan 09
Hi there!
When I start a discussion, I really want to know something, everything that there is to know about that certain topic. Therefore, when I have questions to ask, and when I have a related experience that I can share, I always do so together with my thank you for their participation in the discussion that I started. That's actually one of the reasons why I haven't started much discussion ever since I went back to school because I won't be able to actively monitor the discussions that I started. I believe that discussion should be worthwhile conversation.
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@dpk262006 (58677)
• Delhi, India
2 Jan 09
Yes, I agree with your views that one must share his/her thoughts through discussion/comments. It is a kind of coversation.
Thanks for dropping in!
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@savak03 (6684)
• United States
3 Jan 09
I must have missed that one kijiky. I try to start some thought provoking discussions but most of the time it seems my discussions have been about something I needed information about. I must admit that my mylot friends came through for me when that happened. But anyway I agree with you about the one liner discussions. And how do you feel when a person on your friend list starts twenty discussions at one time all basically could have been tied together to make one and still wouldn't have been interesting?
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@dpk262006 (58677)
• Delhi, India
5 Jan 09
Kijiky,
Thanks for agreeing with me, I buy your arguments that only deserving responses may be commented, one liner do not prompt you to write.
Sometimes, the issues may seem important to us but not to others.
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@cupid74 (11388)
• Pakistan
2 Jan 09
Hi deepak
well, i will say that i agreee with "purily ur personal comments"" that "post look dull and drabs without comments and counter comments.
well i love to comment and counter comment on nice and lovely discussions, specially of my friends. and its always my priorty to response to comments or counter comments first rather than to responding new discussion. i like the thread going long and others joining in.
so i think we think alike, but i am sure u cant add me again as i am already in ur list
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@Sreekala (34312)
• India
2 Jan 09
Hi dpk,
I think this discussion is not meant for us (those who are already in your list). I felt it is an invitation for new friends (lol). But I am glad to give my comments on some points. I also noticed the same; some are not at all bothered to post a comment. May be they are ignorant that, it is very important to give a comment to the responders and it has two advantages, first it is an acknowledgement to those who responded, we read the response and valuing it, second we can earn money (but not for single lines). I hope your discussion will educate those, who are not interested to reply back, if they don't have time for an immediately reply they can do it according to their convenience.
@dpk262006 (58677)
• Delhi, India
2 Jan 09
Sree, You caught me like Rose did.........LOL!!!
I somehow could not mention (it was perhaps not possible also) to mention that those who are already my friends, need not apply fresh. You are already there, so no 'fresh' application is required from your end.........LOl!
How dare I can 'ignore' my existing friends like you. On the other hand, I wanted that both my existing and fresh one should respond to the discussion.
Thanks for agreeing with my observations that many do not bother to post their comments to our well thought and considered responses. You are right, perhaps they remain igonrant that by not posting comments, they lose some well deserved cents, which they would have earned otherwise. On the other side, I find, there are smart and nice members, who come out with their comments, even if we (me including) have written a 'brief' response to their discussion(s).
Many thanks for making the discussion lively and sparkling with your response, as you always do. ![](/Content/images/emotes/thumbup.gif)
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@alokn99 (5717)
• India
2 Jan 09
Dpk, It feels good to recieve a comment on a response that i have made. In the same way it would be only right to comment on each and every response, unless it falls into a category of abuse....
There are those who do not commment and the reasons for them not doing so are best known to them. But to keep the interaction lively i personally think the more the comments the better.
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@dpk262006 (58677)
• Delhi, India
2 Jan 09
Yes, I know that you always make it a point to post your comments on the responses received, in the process making the discussion more lively and interesting. I have noticed that you do not fail to post your comments to the deserving responses. Well done and keep it up!!![](/Content/images/emotes/thumbup.gif)
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@mimpi1911 (25464)
• India
2 Jan 09
Hi Deepak
the fact that we are friends since forever here proves how we both appreciate commenting and counter commenting and keep interacting till the end. I think a proactive interaction is the true essence of the forum is and I find you going by it i every sense of the term. It makes the discussion so interesting, revealing and meaningful. I would hate it not to find out what someone has to say on my response! Having said this, I must admit that I can't really do this all the time and get late in catching up. But then, the inclination is never the less.I run short of TIME.
Thanks for being a wonderful friend here.
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@dpk262006 (58677)
• Delhi, India
2 Jan 09
Yes, we both are alike, as far as commenting on discussions are concerned and we both try our best to do it till the end.Therefore, we expect the same treatment from other friends/members too.
As usual, it is always great fun interacting through comments/counter-comments and you
always motivate and inspire me to come out with my best.
Many Thanks for agreeing with my observations that many do not bother to post their comments to our well thought and considered responses.
On the other hand, I find, there are smart and nice members, who come out with their comments, even if we (me including) have written a 'brief' response to their discussion(s).
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@James72 (26790)
• Australia
2 Jan 09
As long as I am able, I will ALWATS provide a reply to every response I get. This is a communications forum and to not make the effort to reply pretty much defies the wholepoint of being here! I understand that it is not possible for many to reply to ALL responses they get, but they should at least make the effort to respond to some of them. Any user that never replies to ANY responses ever, will not hold my attention for long and I just won't interact with them. Replying to responses opens the door to further interaction, is this not what we all aspire to here?
It also gives your own thread more exposure too.
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@dpk262006 (58677)
• Delhi, India
2 Jan 09
I know that you always show courtesy of responding and posting your comments to your friends' responses, that is great on your part. I fully agree with you that the one who does not post his/her comments to the responses received cannot succeed in the long run and cannot make good friends here. Please keep it up! Thanks for sharing.
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@apsara60 (6610)
• Israel
5 Jan 09
Hi Deepak, I see that you have been punished for the crime that you did not commit at all...but don't worry, now I am here to fight your case.....lol. So Rose dear, cupid and Sreekala.......you all call yourself friends of Deepak, then how come you did not have faith that deepak will never betray his old friends, have you seen anybody so honest, innocent and loyal on this site.....he is the only one who will always give first preference to the discussions of his friends, he will not only respond to discussion but also to comments and sub comments.....and his content will always be positive one that will make you happy and never hurt you in any way.
so if he is a person who never hurts anybody, don't you think we all as his friend should keep our ragging and teasing to some limits at least for Deepak.
....All that deepak wanted to say is that, he has wonderful friends and he would love to have more such wonderful friends. He has a big heart like deep sea and both old and new friends can swim comfortably in his loving heart. Nice discussion deepak, hope you find nice friends, and they will become our friends too, and we will be a happy family here on mylot.
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@apsara60 (6610)
• Israel
5 Jan 09
Ha ha ha.......Rose my dear, now you are as sweet as sugar, I am sure now Deepak will have tears of joy in his eyes.....magar woh badmash cupid kaha hai....abhi taak uska pata nahi.....lol........btw....thanks Mithra..for your cooperation...you are great![](/Content/images/emotes/rolleyes.gif)
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@dpk262006 (58677)
• Delhi, India
5 Jan 09
Apsara! Words will fail to express my gratitude to you.![](/Content/images/emotes/thumbup.gif)
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You clarified the matter like a crystal clear water. I wrote earlier also in the discussion that I had no intention to either 'ingore' or 'displace' my old and dear friends (that I cannot think even in my dreams). However, despite my assurances I was taken to task and my loyality was questioned.
Also, no new friend or member can match either you, Rose, Cupid or Sreekala, all are unique friends and there cannot be any substitute for existing dear friends.
You are absolutely right, I have a huge heart and more new friends could be accommodated, without any problem. And I also endorse your view that once some more good members join us, it will be bigger and stronger group.
Interestingly, all the exisitng dear friends have gracefully responded to my discussion and it is lovely to see some new one also coming out with their considered thoughts on the discussion.
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@Roseo8 (2947)
• India
5 Jan 09
Hi Aps...Yes we all know what a good person Dpk is,and we all like him a lot that's why we I was surprised when Dpk started this discussion...Actually his discussion scared me a lot.I thought he was getting fed up of us and was looking for other new friends....
...So this discussion of his really scared me and I even started having nightmares of Dpk kicking me out of his friends list...That's why I aksed him to calrify his stand.And when Sree and cupie too all felt the same way we joined togehter to protect our position in his list..that's all Aps ,we never did any thing wrong........
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None of us had any intention to rag or tease him..........actually we were all feeling jealous and did not want more friends to come forward which would have meant he will have less time for us......So Aps dear,dont blame any of us.........For now you know how much we love and care for Dpk.......![](/Content/images/emotes/rasp.gif)
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@dpk262006 (58677)
• Delhi, India
2 Jan 09
It is good at least you have the intention to post comments, that is another matter that due to paucity of time, sometimes you are unable to do so.
Thanks for joining us and sharing.
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@moonlitmagikchild (22181)
• United States
2 Jan 09
i agree when you go and see discussions that people have made and never replied to their replies it does look dull.. i try to reply to all my replies but some times after awhile i cant catch up or a lot of the people say the exact same thing and i dont want to keep repeating myself etc..
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@dpk262006 (58677)
• Delhi, India
2 Jan 09
Moon, You are very much right, comments do make a difference to a discussion and I know it very well, you are one of the good friends here, who do not fail to post her comments. It is always great pleasure responding to your posts.
Thanks for joining us.
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@Manojknair (603)
• India
2 Jan 09
I think it will be good if one could reply to the response he got for the discussion he started . That the way to show your care towards a friend who had spend some time to respond and read your postings.
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@dpk262006 (58677)
• Delhi, India
2 Jan 09
Yes, you are right comments do make a difference to the discussion.
Thanks for joining us.
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@aisaellis22 (6445)
• United States
16 Jan 09
Hello deepak! Well, I guess you know me better already. In every responses that I give, if someone commented on it, I really tried my best to comment back. It's a great feeling that someone is interested to know me better and that someone is interested on my posts. I guess if someone did not comment on my every posts, it gives many speculations and sometimes I may think that he/she doesn't like my answer.
I know you too deepak, we've been interacting here and although as I can see you haven't commented back some of the members who responded to you, it's reasonable because you got many number of responses on your every posts.
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@dpk262006 (58677)
• Delhi, India
16 Jan 09
Hello! Aisa! LOL!
Yes I know you very well know in short span of our interaction. You have proved how true to your words are and you do not fail to post comments and counter-comments![](/Content/images/emotes/thumbup.gif)
. This proves how dedicated and sincere you are and you value your friends and friendship.
Yes, I fully agree with you that if some one posts comments and counter-comments, it clearly shows that how much he/she is interested in us and in continuing the discussion, how much interest he/she is really taking in the discussion.
I buy your argument, if someone does not post any comments on our responses, we may conclude that he/she did not like our response or our response was worthless for him/her.
You are very much right in your observation that I could not post my comment to each and every response, which I wish I could, it may due to paucity of time and some responses are too brief to comment.
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@dpk262006 (58677)
• Delhi, India
21 Feb 09
Yes, if the number of responses are large, it becomes difficult to post comments on each and every response.
No doubt, I have many friends here, but I appreciate those active friends, who take part in my discussions and come out with their views.
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@aisaellis22 (6445)
• United States
16 Jan 09
Well, but still I know the real reason is that you have many responders on your discussion..you must have a lot of friends here..
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@polachicago (18716)
• United States
3 Jan 09
I always post commends to received responses.
I like to have a DISCUSSION. We are not posting short news here, we are discussing. If I want people to read my philosophy, I would start information blog and wait for comments.
I have a lots of fun in here only when I can communicate with others.
If someone starts too many discussions per day without responding to others, I usually avoid that person. It is very selfish and it doesn't pay on the long run...
Counter comments? oh yes, I like it too...
When people are in good mood, we can have lots of fun...
Others? they don't know what they are missing...
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@dpk262006 (58677)
• Delhi, India
3 Jan 09
I know about you Pola, you are the most dearest of overseas friends and I can vouch for you that you do not fail to post your comments or responses to my discussions. Always feels good to see your comment/counter-comments on my response. Your comments make the discussion more sparkling. It is always great fun and enjoyment interacting with you.![](/Content/images/emotes/happy.gif)
I fully agree with you that if the members do not comment, they do not know what they are missing.
Many thanks for sparing your valuable time and joining us.
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@lkbooi (16070)
• Malaysia
21 Feb 09
Hi dpk, thanks for your friend request and I’m glad
that we are friends now.
Yeah, I will try my best to leave comment on every response received on my discussions no matter it is a new or an old one. I hope that my friends won’t feel bored to read my comments. It doesn’t matter whether the responders would have interest to read my comment left or not. I feel content and cheerful to see my discussions with both responses and comments on them. Of course I have to spend much time to take care of my discussions, as I could have minimal time to type posts here during my spare time. That’s the reason I don’t start many discussions here.
I would have further chitchat only if I still have something to express or to share with on the topic when receiving any email notification.
Happy posting
and have a nice
day, my new friend.
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@lkbooi (16070)
• Malaysia
21 Feb 09
You are most welcome dpk. Really, it didn’t occur to me that I have the honor to be the type of friend that you are looking for
. Thanks for those very warm and sweet words that make me to feel as happy as a lark
It’s really nice to talk with you here my friend. Take care and bye ...
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@dpk262006 (58677)
• Delhi, India
23 Feb 09
OH! Again thanks a lot for your such a touching comments.
It is my pleasure also to talk to you, hope we will learn from each other.
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@dpk262006 (58677)
• Delhi, India
21 Feb 09
Ikbooi! It is my pleasure to be your friend.
I observed that you do not fail to post comments on responses received to your discussions, that was one of the main reasons for sending you the request. Moreover, I found that you express yourself in a very nice and lucid manner.
There is no question of getting bored with your comments, I know you will always come out with your some interesting and wonderful comments. I can understand it takes time to post comments and it is not an easy task.........LOL!
Nice to see your response.Many thanks for dropping in
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@grecychunny26 (9483)
• Philippines
15 May 09
Of all the responses I received, I make sure I will put comments on it so that my responser will think I appreciate their response even not all are helpfuland benefit my part. I will treat every response equal although there are best response for me so that if they will see my new discussion this will attract them to response again or even just view it if they are not interest and rate me. I want to treat everyone my friend or not that they are welcome in my discussion. Also if their response really helps me a lot I let them know, I am sure it makes them feel good.
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@dpk262006 (58677)
• Delhi, India
15 May 09
You have such wonderful and friendly approach towards all mylotters, it speaks highly about you. Please carry on with your positive attitude. Many thanks for sharing your thoughts.
@SomeCowgirl (32191)
• United States
3 Jan 09
I am not sure as how to answer this. I respond to my own discussions in the way that I see fit. Sometimes people do not add something that I could add too, and in that case I will just tell them that I am appreciative of their response. I will sometimes go to their own discussions and respond to them in a way to make up for what I could not add to in comment on my own discussion.
I am trying to be better in making long thoughtful discussions, comments and response so that people may be able to respond to me and I to them.
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@dpk262006 (58677)
• Delhi, India
3 Jan 09
I agree with that when any response does not deserve any comments, then it could be left as it is. However, when a response is such that it deserve some comments, then I feel, it must be posted by the host of the discussions, it makes the discussion more interesting and lively.
I appreciate your other idea of compensating the member, who replies to your posts, by answering his/her posts.
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@savak03 (6684)
• United States
3 Jan 09
This looks like a great bunch of people to be friends with. I would be honored to be on each of your friends list. I will always comment on any of your discussions that I can bring something of value to and will always respond to comments you leave on my discussions. So, if any of you would like a new friend please start the paper work and I will approve you straight away.
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@dpk262006 (58677)
• Delhi, India
5 Jan 09
YOu are most welcome.
Savak, Thanks for posting your sub-comments on various responses to this discussion. This shows that you are a keen person to read the responses. Please keep the good work going. Your comments make the discussion more sparkling. It is always great fun to prolong a discussion. If the members do not comment, they do not know what they are missing.
Many thanks for sparing your valuable time and joining us.
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@Roseo8 (2947)
• India
5 Jan 09
Hello Savak..I have already added you to my friend's list...welcome to our mad mad world...any friend of Dpk,is a friend of mine as well.........And if you do not mind teasing and leg pulling ,you will be quite at home with all of us...Good luck and happy myltotting to you.............![](/Content/images/emotes/happy.gif)
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@maygodblessu44 (7336)
• India
13 Jan 09
Hello my friend dpk262006 Ji,
I think you are right to conclude that each and every responses must be commented. I always wish to honour them. It is our morale duty to comment after we get responses, I have seen you commenting and at times string become too large to follow. We are as it is friends, I will try and do the best. may God bless you and have a great time.![](/Content/images/emotes/thumbup.gif)
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@dpk262006 (58677)
• Delhi, India
13 Jan 09
Hello! maygodblessu44ji!
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and for agreeing with me. As far as string getting too large, I would say - I love making comments and counter-comments and I wish to be the last person to end the Note.
Hope to see you in my other discussions.
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@dpk262006 (58677)
• Delhi, India
16 Jan 09
Thanks again for your positive comments.![](/Content/images/emotes/thumbup.gif)
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I wish that my spirit should never die. I should post as many comments and counter comments, as much I can to make the discussion look lively and interesting.
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@maygodblessu44 (7336)
• India
13 Jan 09
Hello my friend dpk262006 Ji,
Nice to know that you leave no stones un-turned as far as you are concerned, and never withdraw yourself till last. It is very good quality in human being, which only makes a person determined internally and makes one to climb high and high. Let feeling never die. let it burn. may god bless you and have a great time.![](/Content/images/emotes/thumbup.gif)
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