The Love of your Life or The Life you Love?
By salbahis06
@salbahis06 (234)
Philippines
January 2, 2009 5:44pm CST
if you are in a situation that you have to choose between the two?Example, you and your love of ur life is totally opposite in terms of status, your heaven and he/she is earth and your parents doesnt approve you with him/her. Which one would you probably go? Are you willing to sacrifice the life you love for the love of your life? Im still having confusions which should I go for.
3 responses
@jwinegum (9)
• Malta
3 Jan 09
Well, I have been there, and believe me, these things do have a way of taking care of themselves. My advice would be that if you really believe it's worth it, hang on in there, and in time everything will solve itself. If you are meant to be with him, your family will learn to see your point of view, and if you are not meant to be, you will understand this, and letting go would not be so hard.
Good luck.
@salbahis06 (234)
• Philippines
3 Jan 09
makes sense to me. thanks! i think it made up my mind a lil bit. [;
@amazingheart (781)
• Philippines
3 Jan 09
It's kind of difficult when you lose of the life you love.....When she/he is meant for you , there has no reasons for you to choose between the two. If you love someone then just go for it, with no regrets and no has to blame just because you lose the things you used to.... :) That's life, its always a sacrifice. :) ( got confused also lol)
@CheshireKat (564)
• United States
3 Jan 09
I would go for the life I love. If you and the person you love are under perpetual stress or are constantly arguing about different opinions/there is family stress, you won't be able to be really happy.
If you go for the life you love and the person is willing to wait or comes back around once you're settled, that's one thing.
I'm not a big fan of sacrificing my future for someone who may or may not be 'the one' we're always hearing about.
That's just my opinion though, best of luck. I hope you find your own path. :)
