What is the better way to make your heart move on?
By raik02
@raik02 (78)
Philippines
January 3, 2009 3:55am CST
Many people think that moving on is a very hard thing but answering there question is also a hard thing...
"Can you please give me some tips on how to move on?"
oh!! help me!!
3 responses
@stormy09 (437)
• United Arab Emirates
3 Jan 09
Moving on is the hardest thing to do and it will take time.. In order for you move on try not think of that particular person and make ur self busy, go out with friends, talked to ur family and do lots of activities and most importantly pray to GOD. .
@stormy09 (437)
• United Arab Emirates
3 Jan 09
I know my friend it very difficult but if God is with us nothing is imposible,, I have been into a lot of pains and i admit that it was very difficult but I need accept that we are not meant for each other.. I always keep in mind that we broke up because we are not meant for each other and I know it happens because their someone whos better...Just keep on pryaing my friend and take it slowly.. Good luck to u..
@amazingheart (781)
• Philippines
3 Jan 09
Hi raiko, Just be open to your feelings of sadness and anger instead of pushing the pain away. This does not mean dwelling on these feelings endlessly, because being obsessed with thoughts about the relationship can become a way of keeping the connection alive. Mourning should not be a way of of clinging but a way of letting go and saying good bye..
Go slowly. Give enough time to heal but not so much time that the scab hardens into a shell. Get involved in activities, courses, and friendships. Increase your capacity to be alone and feel OK about it. You can always have your choice raiko, don't let your past experiences cripple your future.....
@raik02 (78)
• Philippines
25 Jul 10
i agree the only way of moving on is to accept everything from within.
example
when someone passes away the only thing that you could to to move on is to accept that he/she is gone, that everything happened for a reason and things are going to be better after a few days.
confront your issues look in the mirror and tell yourself "I forgive you".
its like you must first accept the idea within yourself, you must first acknowledge that it is possible for you and that you really wanted it. that way you would have a little rooting as you face yourself in the mirror
@n30wing (4767)
• Philippines
4 Jan 09
I think when you really love someone it's not easy to move on. It doesn't take a one night not to remember those sweet memories you been together. It's not easy to pretend that your okay, deep inside you your hurting. It takes time, to heal the wounds. Adjusting is not easy it's also one of the hardest thing to do when you get use of the time your being in the relationship. I think just be busy or travel alone somewhere that you haven't been, well I don't wanna see anyone for a while, I just wanna be alone and think of myself first and ask what I wanna do with my life now. Good night! Pleasant dreams!
