Do your parents know all your sorrows?

Hey there no they do not know most the thinks there are to know about me to be able to know me well anove. Arohnui Love loveyoohbaby xoxo

My parents doesn't know about what went wrong with my previous relationships. My mom, especially, thought (..still thinking) that it's all my fault. She thinks i'm the one initiating a fight but the truth is, i was fooled and cheated. I didn't tell her about it not because of my pride or ego but i don't want to give her an impression that the girls she has met are the girls she must hate.

Well I try and tell my mom about most of the things that bothers me but I kinda keep to myself anyway so it's hard. My mom is really cool though and usually helps me through whatever bothers me, I just have to get the courage to tell her about whatever it is first.

Well my mother is basically my only parent and I try not to tell her all my problems especially the seriuos ones because she is a compulsive worrier and I dont want her to worry.In addition I think I am an adult now and I should be tackling my own problems ,she has sacrficed enough and now should be just taking it easy without having to carry my burdens. You have made a good point though about how it may lead to misunderstandings .I suppose there are some things that you have to tell them.The truth be told my mother already knows my financial problems ,its teh more personal stuff that I tend to avoid telling her. Good discussion

I don't feel confident enough in my relationship with my parents to talk to them about stuff. If they find out or hear something and ask me about it, i'll tell them what i think they need to know. other than that, i talk to my little sister. she's the one i got to talk to about everything

Hi, I keep quiet about my problems cause well my dad past away I could always talk to him, but my mother I cant all she does is start a fight it just upsets me so i would say go tot he person your closer to hope this helped

You know honesty is always the best policy and if you are going to hear, "I told you so," that means that your parents aren't really into caring for your emotional needs. That is such an emotional blow to your psyche and I feel bad that your parents would actually say such a thing. It is a form of abuse, but you can't sell your parents short either, talking and communicating is very important and you do a very good job of communicating with the rest of us here... I'd say give your parents a try and test the waters, but for sure don't get your self hurt. You can always turn to friends in times of need. Know where to find good answers and seek good advice with people that you can confide in. You are right that money does not grow on trees. This is a bad economy and there are other things that you should also know, check out my posts... Maybe you have something else to talk to your parents about?

Hello There… I have a very tight relationship with my Mother. I can tell her almost everything even if it is issue from the office, personal stuff or with my friends but I have to admit that there are certain things that I keep from myself, that I am the only one who knows. I guess all of us have something that they don’t want to share or that is considered private in their life. With other stuff like if it is going to be a big discussion or if I am in trouble, I can tell her that… and yes, it could mean a big fight or argument between parent and his kid but that is how it is… they are just concern and for me, I need to tell her what happened in case I am in big trouble just so she know incase whatever happens. Thanks for the discussion! Happy Mylotting and have a great day ahead! Cheers!

well no. unfortunately they aren't as sensitive as i want them to be. But i'm also glad. i won't want them to over worry. but in any case, like you've mentioned not telling them certain things do help avoid certain misunderstandings. And given that my mum jumps to conclusions REALLY fast and has ideas in her little mind of hers, i usually keep things to myself.

In my younger years I share my sorrows with my parents. for as a growing kid, those sorrows are not that great deal as not as you grow older,for as we grow our lifes are more complex as we struggle in a world with so diverse situations. As I grow old I had learn to handle problems and sorrows along my way without having to involve my parents. At times even if I am that much hurt I go along solving my own grief for reasons that I just don't want to bother my parents with my own doings. But I thank GOD for he is good to me. I learn to understand the people around me and the situations I am into, so that by understanding them I became more tougher and a firm person in my decisions in life. And now that I am a mother of four kids I had learn to handle them in a way that I try to penetrate their world so as to be aware of their feelings and doings to be more understanding to them so that they will open up their lifes to me. Not to totally interfere with their decisions in life, but just to be there to give my support and love for them so that they will find themselves in the world they want to live and enjoy.I find myself fulfilled when I see them happy and contended.

Well my parents does not know all my sorrows becoz i dont want to make them feel sad sharing my sorrows