how to deal with the faith wooer?
@breezeforever (56)
China
January 4, 2009 3:46am CST
He is my schoolmate from senior shcool .And one day he told me that he had admired me for many year .But I don't know that till he said.I refuse him and told I have boyfriend.But he don't give up.And last month I broke up with my boyfriend .He is be further intensified.I don't want to hurt him but I really don't know how to deal with this case.He is my friend .I want a happy ending but not the internecine.
3 responses
@numberonechick (139)
• Singapore
5 Jan 09
Hmm if he really do not understand the meaning of friends, means he doesn't understand you and does not respect your decision. He is like controlling your life already.
If i were you, i would tell him that I have had enough. Then, stop contacting him. If he really is good, you won't be worrying right now.
@breezeforever (56)
• China
13 Jan 09
Well,you maybe right.I just want to find a way to let he know he is hopeless.
@breezeforever (56)
• China
5 Jan 09
I do have talked to him so.But he said he will never give up.And many many time when we go together with other friends,He treat me specialy better so that every one can see the true that he want to woo me.And because this situation other male friend will treat me like I was really his girlfriend.I don't like this .I try my best to clarify it but that seems not work.
@breezeforever (56)
• China
5 Jan 09
Every friend beside me says he is the best one who treats me perfectly.That seems ture. when I was in hospital,he is tense and go to hospital to take good care of me,seting down his work .He's always the first one to say happy birthday to me every year.And also he cares about the whole thing of me .But the point is I have't any feeling with him.how to get together if no love?I want to tell him so.But that's cruel enough to name it.
