How much u love ur lover?

India
January 4, 2009 10:18pm CST
I know its a silly question to ask. But most love failures happen bcoz of this only. Some love happen just like that and end that time itself. There are lots of people i have seen who love for cash and attire of the persons. This is really bad. Love should be in heart and should be felt. Its a sharing of happiness and sadness of a person all time. This really makes u mature. Share ur thoughts abt ur lover and love.
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9 responses
@anne12d (676)
• Philippines
6 Jan 09
I really dont know how much I love my boy friend, I guess it shouldn't be measured. When we are together as if we have our own world and we don't care about people around us. We are happy and as if our relationship is not only a lover but also a friend, soulmate and best friend. We are in a long distance relationship and we make sure we share our love with one another with constant communication. He's here in the country and perhaps if I dont have work to do, we are together almost everyday but I need to work and he understand that the same way I understand him being with his family and they have lots of activities. He will be back to Singapore this sunday and he's sad and I am too but he needs to go back. He doesn't want me to drop him off to airport because he might not get in the airplane. He can't take the emotion of seeing me being there and saying goodbye with one another and I can't stand that situation as well. So I just pray that he will have a safe trip back to SG and hoping to see him by December. We don't have perfect relationship, we argue, we fight but we rekindle as soon as possible and bring back the sweetness we have even in a long distance relationship.
@anne12d (676)
• Philippines
8 Jan 09
Thanks for marking my response as your best one!!!
• Philippines
7 Jan 09
I'm already in a 4-year and counting relationship with my boyfriend. Money and attire/looks never became an issue on why we love each other this way. We're together since college and we never had a fight wherein we shout on each other's face and hurt each other emotionally and physically. Since we've graduated from college,two years back,we now have our own careers,we found out that the only way to test each other is by giving each other space and letting each other grow not by being together all the time but by letting each other know that we're there for each other. We see each other on weekends or rest days, We cook food for each other, We share problems and share thoughts and interests with anything,we travel a lot and we are very comfortable in not giving each other a limitation as long as we knoe it will help us grow as individuals. Since,we are on the peak of our careers we still make it a point that we have an open communication and we make sure that we are still up to date on each and every activity we have,because now, I that I am working abroad and my boyfriend now have his career as a seaman. We dont let anything,any single thing ruin the friendship we had for years.To my surprise, i never thought that my boyfriend miss me so much & what he did was he booked a ticket to be with me and spend the Hearts Day with me this coming February here in Kuala Lumpur. Well, i guess you need to ask my boyfriend too how much he loves me,coz' for me I love him as a bestfriend/bestbud trapped in a boyfriend figure body. = )
@n30wing (4767)
• Philippines
6 Jan 09
I love her so much, that I wont last a day with out her. Well seldom you can see relationship works now a days. But there is always an exception to the rule. Maybe it's about working both together. Making things last, not a hopeless case, a one sided thing. You are right love should be felt, and not playing on feelings. Have a nice day to you!
@jesbellaine (4139)
• Philippines
5 Jan 09
Hello There! I love my partner with all my heart. I am loyal to him no matter what happens. For me, love is about two persons who share the same feeling for each other. Yes, you are right, love should be felt and not to be forced… otherwise, it is really hard to make the relationship happens the right way. It makes you mature yes. With my partner right now, we started as not that mature person in a relationship. We had fights even if it is for non sense stuff but as we grow older together, we are learning, as much as possible, we try to be mature in the situation. On my part, I try so hard to understand him and give him my support if he needs one. Thanks for the discussion! Happy Mylotting and have a great day ahead! Cheers!
@cybersoft01 (1284)
• India
5 Jan 09
I love my partner more than any one in this world has ever loved any one in this world.
• United States
5 Jan 09
I love my lover unconditionaly. there should not be a price tag on love and for me, i would give my life for my girlfriend and for her happyness. its not about what you want to GET from the person, its what you want to GIVE to the person.
• India
5 Jan 09
i love my lover very very very much i cant able to define it but wht to do i dont have lover
@Porcospino (31366)
• Denmark
5 Jan 09
I love my fiance very much and for the first time I feel that I am in a good and healthy relationship - a relationship based on mutual love. In the past I have had other boyfriends, but I often felt that I gave a lot and received very little in return. In my current relationship I love and I feel loved. We both know how to give and take, and it is no oneway street. In February we have known eachother for a year. We met on a blind date and I didn't expect it to go that well, but I am extremely happy that we met and that we became a couple.
@Pleiades (846)
• United States
5 Jan 09
Love is such a fickle thing. Think about it, it makes the world go around yet it also crushes the strongest of men into a crumpling heap as they cry. For someone who has been married many times over, I think it's easy to say that my idea of true love is broken and shattered. However, I've found myself in love again, this time though I'm taking it slowly. It helps that he's on the other side of the world during his deployment. For my red head and I, our love isn't out of conveince or money, far from it, we're in love because we believe that we're found someone who needs the other and we want to make the lives of ours and my children better. My ex, before we divorced, told me that I would never find a man who will love me and the children as much as he. I think in that instance, it's a battle for my love, he's got to not only win my heart, but the hearts of the children. He has an advantage: he's been the stepson so he knows what the man feels. *Pleiades