What's the worst thing your gf/bf/husband/wife can do to you?
By n30wing
@n30wing (4767)
Philippines
11 responses
@clouds0327 (1389)
• Philippines
21 Jun 10
Well, the worst thing he could do to me, is to cheat on me one day and tell me he is so tired of me and that he was just trying to understand me the whole time. I sacrificed alot, from working so hard on a graveyard shift to dealing with all his siblings and mother...and relatives.. to not being able to buy what I want because I have to think of the family first. Not being able to pursue my career because Im waiting for him to graduate and get a diploma. And then suddenly one day, when he already have a job, successful or lets say have his a stable income tell me that he found someone else.. and that we are not working anymore... DUHHHHH!!!!! Like I'll believe that.. THATS THE WORST THING HE COULD DO.. AND THEY ARE REALLY GOING TO PAY BIG TIME....Im not kidding!
@LikeAdams0921 (130)
• United States
22 Jun 10
That is definitely one of the worse ways to deceive someone and waste their time. When you get into a relationship, you have to observe, observe, observe! If he or she shows signs of selfishness or big egos, you cannot rely on them to put you first. They will always protect themselves even if it means hurting you. I have been in that situation and it really is hard to accept that someone you care for could do that to you. Always expect the best from your partner, but don't be naive either. And there should be a balance in the relationship. If you are putting your all into it, then they should be too. So if one deceives the other, then both parties leave with losses. This is your life here! You get one life. Relationships go through ups and downs, but they are not supposed to make your life harder than it has to be.
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@LikeAdams0921 (130)
• United States
12 Apr 09
The worst thing my boyfriend can do to me is lie to me. I really don't tolerate liars. That is the worst way to deceive somebody in my eyes. If he has done something I don't approve of, he knows he better tell me the truth. Honesty means a lot to me in a relationship. When you stop being honest, you stop respecting the other person.
@n30wing (4767)
• Philippines
13 Apr 09
Well I don't like that too! I hate liars! I won't consider or tolerate it too. I rather let her to be opening up everything even though it will hurt me. For me what counts is respecting each other feelings, and trusting each other. If those two is not in the relationship anymore, I rather just let it go! Anyway have a nice day to you!
@clouds0327 (1389)
• Philippines
21 Jun 10
LikeAdams0921 I agree with you, if you love the person, you should respect her/him, if you respect him you dont lie to him/her... Lie like you know the big stuff like cheating, dating someone else, chatting with others or texting other girls (flirting) sort of thing.
@sacmom (14192)
• United States
6 Jan 09
The worst thing my husband could do to me is cheat on me. Cheating can ruin a relationship and if the couple does stay together it is hard to ever trust the one that cheated.
@Jhordie (5115)
• Philippines
6 Jan 09
It would be CHEATING on me... and that is the reason why I DO NOT WANT TO GET BACK with my EX because I've found out she went out with THIS other guy while we were still together. Uggghhhh... REALLY PAINFUL! Sob
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I can't help but reply here... I DO RELATE with your topic bro.
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I can't help but reply here... I DO RELATE with your topic bro. @n30wing (4767)
• Philippines
7 Jan 09
That is bad my friend. If I were in your case it is really goodbye. Really don't wanna see her anymore even her shadow. Don't worry it's not your lose it's her's. You take care my brother. Nice to hear from you! God bless! Have you watch the documentary of 2012 at You tube? Watch it my friend.
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@numberonechick (139)
• Singapore
5 Jan 09
The worst thing is to cheat on me and leave me and then spread rumours about me just to cover up his mistake! argh!
@clouds0327 (1389)
• Philippines
21 Jun 10
numberonechick--- GUYS ARE SOOOOOOOO LIKE THAT.... And that really pisses me off, I loose my respect on them, its so childish to do that.. why dont you stand up for the real reason and face the girl and tell her that you dont love her anymore.. than to spread rumors to cover up.. Thats so GAY!!!!
@jesbellaine (4139)
• Philippines
5 Jan 09
Hello There!
The worst things that he can do to me is leave me hanging by myself, for making me inferior and most of all, for cheating on me. But on those three, I cannot stand the fact that he will cheat on me. I mean I could let the other faults pass but not this one because cheating only means that he is not satisfied on what you have in the relationship. I know how it feels to be cheated and I proved to myself that I cannot take him back… I think that is the worst thing that my partner can do to me.
Thanks for the discussion!
Happy Mylotting and have a great day ahead! Cheers!
@n30wing (4767)
• Philippines
6 Jan 09
Same with me, but what I hated most is keep you hanging and leaving you without saying goodbye, just like that. The cheating well, I'll just let go and just turn my back and never talk to her again. It's her lose not mine! Have a nice day to you! Keep on smiling!
@cybersoft01 (1284)
• India
5 Jan 09
What irritates me the most is not trusting me. Not only my wife or g/f but if any one on this earth does not trust me, it hurts me to such an extent that I feel like breaking up with her because I am so honest and trustworthy.
@tjhtommyj (261)
• Canada
5 Jan 09
Lying. Cheating and things like that would certainly ruin/end the relationship but at least there is a break there, some sort of closure or ending to the story there. I can leave with a sense of dignity, and knowing I was the better person (well, to an extent anyway.) Lying on the other hand, depending on how big, doesn't necessarily end the relationship but it would certainly open up trust issues. My girlfriend can vouch for me when I say trust and honesty go a looooooong way with me. Without those I wouldn't be able to see the person in same light again.
