being far apart.do i need trust him

Hi Cynthia (23) lol, I was in a relationship earlier, and my bf went to some other country for his further studies, i broke up, sad to say, but it was really hard for me to trust him. Somewhere in my heart i wanted him to go because he was not a trustable person and trust is the most important thing in a relationship. I think you should trust him and stop worrying about him all the time. If you will keep asking doubtful questions to him all the time, he will get irritated and things will go worst even if they are meant to be good. So enjoy your relationship and whenever you people talk just share good things instead of asking irrelevant and doubtful questions, which can make him feel that you don't trust him.

I had a long-distance relationship for a few years. Trust is ESSENTIAL. You have to trust. If you don't, you'll go mad worrying about it all the time! And when all is said and done, if they cheat on you then they didn't deserve you anyway.

Uuuhhh...YEAH! Actually, it also dependds on what the other person does for a living, where's he living and what's going on around him that would add up to the greater need for the trust to be there. I was in a long distance relationship five years ago and I blew it. Sad to say, but I was tempted by someone here and broke it off with the man from the other state. That relationship didn't go over well, but I find myself again in a relationship with someone far away from me. Luckily this time, I have absolutely no desire to look upon the face of another man other than the one that has my heart. Now, with the man on the other side of the world. He's a man, he's a soldier of the United States Army. Lucky for me, he really has no desire to be with a woman from over there. I guess, if anything, we're tired of being shoved and pulled here and there in the relationship, we're tired of being stepped upon...we're ready for something more mature. Respect and maturity...those are the key ingredients. *Pleiades