I think my cousin is still in love with his ex . . .

Philippines
January 5, 2009 6:39am CST
Yesterday, my cousin (from my father's side) was in our house while his ex girlfriend (who happens to be a cousin from my mother's side) was also in our house for the post birthday celebration of my husband. They saw each other after they have separated as lovers. But my male cousin is already married but my girl cousin is already engaged. I just hope they won't get involved again but I can see in my male cousin's eyes that he has some feelings for her. I hope I am wrong!
5 responses
• Philippines
5 Jan 09
There are things that usually happen when you dont seem to expect it to happen.i hope YOU, as their closest relative, act as someone who will remind them to tame theirselves because what their doing is not right and will never be right. Men are born polygamous so they tend to flirt with the other girls even if they know they already have their wife at home waiting for them.(it is based from the book "Why Men Dont Listen and Women cant read maps")
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• Philippines
10 Jan 09
Yeah, I have reminded them both not to do the wrong thing and instead advised them to stay happy with their respective partners.
@suzzy3 (8341)
5 Jan 09
They were probably just having a moment.their relationship meant something to them and they will always have thier memories and as long as that is all it is they should be ok.Distance is needed between them so they can develope their relationships and make them strong.I still see some of my ex boyfriends and you have to smile at them,there is no way I am going to leave my husband for them as what I have got with him ,I will never have with them.It must have been ages ago they split up and moved on a couple of years I would say for someone to meet someone elses and get married,I would have been more worried if they had glared at one another as that shows passion and desire.No I think you were ok and probably worried over nothing,better smiling then fighting or awkward and embarrased.
• Philippines
10 Jan 09
Maybe they were just happy to see each other again after a long while especially that they separated through phone. the girl was in Canada while the guy was left in the Philippines.
@syankee525 (6261)
• United States
5 Jan 09
let see if i get this right, your cousins from both side of the family was together as lovers. but they aren't cousin to each other right ? if they were that is just wrong.. cousins hooking up.
• Philippines
5 Jan 09
They are not cousins. . . . But both of them are my cousins. They come from different families
@sonusd (1547)
• India
5 Jan 09
some time what happen whether in love with some one after also getting married to another gal it is difficult to forget her it may be due to not getting sufficient happiness form current wife or may be due to some other weak ness but it also some time depend upon the character of the person and honesty of person
• Philippines
5 Jan 09
Their relationship was rudely interrupted. I don't know what was the real reason why they separated. I hope they would remain as friends instead.
@ahefty (41)
• United States
5 Jan 09
Oh wow. What a mess. I cant even imagine. But, Im thinkin if he still has feelings for someone else he probably shouldn't have gotten married